Guys what would be your reason for stalking an old flame on social media?

[Anonymous]

And looking at her pics? And making fake accounts just to stalk her

... When you are married with a pregnant wife, why would you do this?

I regret getting married😩

I still like the old flame and miss her😕

SEX😍😏

All of the above

I’m a creep that needs help 💀

Fuck man I would never do that😐😳

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[Cuteusernamehere]

He's making sure he made the right decision. Marriage and children are hard. Sometimes guys just need to reassure themselves that they didn't miss out on something better. Unless he's obsessing over her or talking to her I wouldn't worry.
As for the fake profile, he feels guilty even being curious. He doesn't want to hurt you or give her the idea he's still interested. It's stupid (deception is lying, lying is never the good choice) and communication between you two would of avoided this but most likely he didn't have any bad intentions.
My guy occasionally will look up old flames profiles. It not worried about it.

[Asker]

He was talking to her saying how he likes her (but using third person) if that makes sense

[Cuteusernamehere]

There's definitely a problem there. Talk to him about it. Better now than later.

[Asker]

What sorta problem? Cos he says it’s nothing

[Cuteusernamehere]

Anonymously checking in on an ex is 99% of the time innocent. Making contact with her is not. There's no reason to ever talk to an ex when your happily married. My guess is he's not happy and he's lying to you saying there's no problem.

[Anon-ymous1]

This is mostly a very good answer.

[MarianneF]

An "Ex" is an "x", otherwise you have not moved on, and you're heading for trouble. Friendship is hard if there was none at the beginning, like dating your friend.
So, moving on, and focus on your next step, wish your ex well and say good bye

[anametouse]

Well I wouldn't go as far as making a fake account. But perhaps he is contemplating what could have been if the old flame didn't burn out so to speak. He could be imagining what could have been if he stayed, and if that outcome would be better than the one he is in now. There might be some regret if the stalking is frequent

[Asker]

It is pretty frequent, is says every 6 months or so

[Asker]

*i’d say

[Curmudgeon]

Stalking is ugly.

However, opening the "Where are they now?" file just to get an answer to that question is valid, and once he gets the answer to that question, it ends.

[Nivinxus]

No, we broke up for a reason and it's in both our interest that we stay apart. I intend to keep it that way so I can focus on more pertinent things in life.

[Bombidil]

I don't see any reason to do something like that unless my emotional state was out of whack.

[Anonymous]

first off i ain't never getting married cause i hate marriage but thats a different story. anyways... still wouldn't do that because i don't care enough about either of my exes to make fake accounts and stalk them. thats creepy as shit

[jacquesvol]

I wouldn't marry my exes but I have friendly feelings and I want to know things are going well for them.

[Anonymous]

You answered your own question. They're stalking. They've become a stalker. It's weird af

[Decentguy]

i would never do that

[Asker]

Thats because you are DecentGuy 😇

[Decentguy]

Thanks
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[Anonymous]

Why not just say this question is about you? It's easy. Being nosy seeing where people went in life. If he still had feelings and wanted you, he wouldn't be hiding behind a fake account. That is assuming that you know for a fact that it is him

[Asker]

I can word the question how I want.

[Anonymous]

Probably to see if they are doing better in life then they are

[thechico79]

i never and will never do that

[Pinki2557]

Who's that?

[Kat_puppies]

hell no thats creepy

[Water_Bottle]

Curiosity at best.