Polls: Guy's Behavior

I travelled to his city (as per his invite) and he asked me these questions.

Who did you stay with?

Who did you bring with you?

He was interviewing my alongside the 2 senior managers of the team and was supposed to mentor me and show me around on my first day at work since I was assigned to his project. I felt like I sucked during the interview since the senior manager seemed to not like me but received an offer the next day. I assume it was because I was the only applicant for the role.

When I arrived on my first day I saw him making a phone call in the lobby but not acknowledging me. Later the senior manager welcomed me and showed me the office where he was not to be found even though he was supposed to show me around. Later I found out that his coworker would mentor me instead of him and he never made an effort to talk to me, not even work related issues. Even other coworkers mentioned that he barely spoke to me so I’m not imagining it.

Does that indicate that he thinks I’m incompetent and therefore doesn’t want to be associated with me? Or does he think I would just be a bother because I don’t come off intelligent enough for him? Or does he just find me unpleasant or physically unattractive? He is married but I know that he has an affair with his coworker and he is quite sociable so it’s not like he is afraid of metoo.

He is 27 and I’m 30. We work together in a small team and have worked together for just over two years now. I believe we have a flirty relationship. He is nice to everyone and always jokes/has a laugh with everyone, so it would be difficult to know whether he was into me. Examples of his flirting include:

- We have a lot of eye contact. Sometimes I will catch him staring at me or the eye contact will be very prolonged. Haven’t noticed the pupil dilation at all.

- He does silly things just to get my attention. He will grab my hair clip, press something on my keyboard or touch my chair.

- On a night out, someone thought he was my husband for some reason, and he said “I should be so lucky”

- Outside of work he is very “huggy” but won’t touch me at work

- He laughs at silly things I do and calls me “daftie” occasionally

- I was stressing about an upcoming event because I was having my hair and makeup done. He asked me why I was having someone else do it and I said “because I want to look beautiful”, to which he said “why don’t you just do it yourself”

- sometimes I will see him look at my boobs

- he sometimes gets a little jealous I think. When another man gave me a lift into work, he called me a “wimp” and when I asked for help on something, he said “why don’t you get “other guy” to help you”

I have a flirty relationship with a guy at work.

I was stressing about an upcoming event and I was having my hair and makeup done.

I was talking to him about it, and I said “I’m having my makeup and hair done for this event. I want to look beautiful”

He then said “why don’t you do it yourself then?” And we had some extended eye contact.

Was he subtly telling me that he finds me beautiful?

Basically, what height is most attractive on a girl in your opinion?

We was talking last night on wanting to Meet.
He called me babe after I called him baby.

We hangout a lot before He had his girlfriend. We use to be coworkers he took care of me when I was sick. And he made sure I had a safe place to stay.
Once he had his girlfriend ya there were times we couldn't talk at all or she would get jealous mainly cuz I'm skinny then her. But he knew her longer then me. ..

( He said that they do nothing together at all not even sex cuddles or anything.. but yet they with each other.

She used him n drugged him and everything)


He even stood up for our friendship when she was talking shit about me. And telling him he gotta stay away from me.

Sooo.. I'm just wondering.
a lot

But does he like me or am I just his friends with benefits

Because he wants to cuddle Kiss and make love he wants to feel wanted.

He looked shocked and went red when I told him (just an older male friend). He then looked me up and down with a surprised look on his face, whilst still bright red.
would a stripper intimidate a guy?

Basically, I’m torn between these hair colors. Which one do you personally prefer? (Girls are also welcome to answer haha)

Or does it mean my supervisors don't trust that I could do more complex and/or interesting tasks because I come off as stupid? I could of course ask them directly but they would never be honest with me because they are too nice. I feel like they hardly give me any work and if they do it's just simple tedious stuff that every monkey could do