Hi girls and guys 👋
I am into a guy, there were clear signs he was interested in me but had gone cold since the day before valentine due to a misunderstanding , and now he avoids me.
I think I will ask him out , but I am always the one who ask guys out and whenever I did to my surprise , I was met with harsh NO’s I have developed trauma because of this because I have been rejected too much ( everytime ) not a single success.
So I am really anxious to ask him because then I will see him everyday ( he works in my home building ) and I know guys can be a bit jerky about this like they become mean etc. So I am scared.
I swore I would never ask a guy out again but everytime I think ‘ he might be really shy I don’t want to let this slip’ but then great shame happen ( some have yelled at me , called me names etc )
i mention this for the guys and girls out there I am considered very pretty All to say : dont believe because a girl or guy is pretty they have all the luck. i really have none and myself esteem through the years have lessen and lessen my taste in guys goes to normal guys nothing fancy.
what should I do?
Thank you