Guys, what is the main reason why you’d buy a woman coffee/lunch or flowers?

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SunnyRS · Accepted Answer

A combination of top three I guess, not anyone of them exactly though.
My main reason maybe that I am interested or intrigued by them so I want to know them where it leads in the future is upto the conversation.

Charlescc · Accepted Answer

To spend time with her and get to know her better

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I said other reasons because those are very different things. Coffee is a buck and a half... three bucks... whatever. I bought coffee to the ladies at the veterinary office last time I was there because we were talking about how suck cold it was outside for the past few weeks. I offer my workmate coffee when I'm going to get some if she doesn't want to walk over there with me, as she does to me.

Lunch... if it's someone I regularly eat with we usually just alternate who pays since it's easier than splitting the bill. I've brought sandwiches/pizza to my friends at work if it was bad weather or we were working late or just had a shite day or whatever. That "lunch" is a little different than buying a 3 course sit down meal at THE chic place in town with reservations 2 months out.

Flowers... could be interest in her... could be because we're friends and she had a bad day. Depends on the bouquet. I'm not sending 4' long stem roses to my work buddy. I'll pick up a vase of wildflowers at the grocery/drug store though. What's that? $20? $30? Not really going to make a move in the monthly budget.

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

I only did that when we were dating. I went with "other reasons". I still operated by old school gentleman code of conduct which meant everything from planning and arranging to date (demonstrates leadership) to walking on the side of the curb next to the road (demonstrates protector qualities) to paying for it (demonstrates provider qualities).

So if I took her to lunch or coffee for a date, I'd pay for it. I saw it as my responsibility. I am her host and she is my guest.

I never bought a woman any flowers though. I had one girlfriend who kept saying the name of her favorite friends as a possible hint that she wanted them as a gift. Yet I kept forgetting the name of the flowers. So I went to a flower store before Christmas thinking if I just look around at the names of the flowers, it'll jog my memory. Didn't work so I went to a nearby electronics store and got her a Playstation Portable instead.

razelove · Answer

Most likely it's someone I know, and either I recently realized I'm attracted to them, or they gave some sign they're into me. If just jumping into that isn't working and there's a buffer, the dynamic of the interactions needs to change, a little romance, something small, but definitely in the direction of romance with little ambiguity.

See if it sticks, and leads to the bedroom. If not realize it's something that would stay ambiguous, keep it on the back of backburners, and turn my attention elsewhere.

Hardy_007 · Answer

I observe a lot when I am with someone now.

Had a sad past, where I used to be unrealistic Romeo of the story.

When I notice that the vibe is matching and things are mutual to some extent, I try to plan some surprises/pranks in the form of good/bad gifts just to observe their reaction.

Well there is a best thing here, It makes the other person think about you for some reason if the gift is valuable for them, Which is not generally a one time pleasure offcourse.

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NathanDavis · Answer

she's my girlfriend, a friend... my mother, my niece, a neighbor, acquaintance, coworker, etcétera... basically, because I know them and it is a nice gesture sometimes

or maybe just because they're hungry and for whatever reason can't afford it at the time

Unit1 · Answer

I'm not gonna speak for myself since I do that only to girlfriends, not to random women. Other men do it in order to get sex or to obtain a girlfriend and running into a high risk of being used.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I don't lie, I don't steal... I just want to clap those cheeks for real.

Drew-1990 · Answer

Either she is my girlfriend and I want to treat her or I'm trying to win her over.

AviatorTom · Answer

It depends.

In a personal setting, it's because I like her and want to show my appreciation for her.

In a professional setting, co-workers often go to lunch together, and we usually take turns paying for each other.

MrNameless · Answer

I only buy flowers if i really like her. I don't want to give it too often. If I really like a girl, I will spend money on her and not be hung up about it.

Fuentes · Answer

Honestly I wouldn't ever buy her nothing in the beginning i woulda told her from the gate what imma do

Sevenpointfive · Answer

to get some.  coffee, maybe just to be nice lunch is to get some flowers? who buys flowers?

RavVid · Answer

I might buy coffee as a gesture of liking her. Lunch would have to be a formal date. Flowers would for after we have had sex.

Billlewis · Answer

To spoil her, and with absolutely no strings attached.

Twalli · Answer

I might want nudes or sex, but I don't do it for that reason

Jerre · Answer

I went with all of the above. Just depends on the woman, whether I’m sexually attracted to her or a good friend.

Slim57 · Answer

All the above, when me and my girlfriend were first dating she was having a bad day and I got her some coffee and she said that's when she knew she was gonna give me some lol

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I don’t do that sort of thing, but if I did it would only be for say an already established romantic partner

serious · Answer

Well, I will never buy a random woman a coffee or flowers just like that.

dragoblack · Answer

Depends on the situation, but most of the time just being nice

dolemite58 · Answer

I wouldn’t buy either of those things for a woman 🤣

justabuddy · Answer

Normally because I like her or because she is in the hospital for some reason.

exitseven · Answer

because I am attracted to her.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

To show I was interested in her.

OfDeath · Answer

Yeah pretty much all of the above.

msc545 · Answer

Just a nice gesture...

Grond21 · Answer

One and two

Likes2drive · Answer

To romance her

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

To get to know her

playerr · Answer

I don't do that

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