Polls: Guy's Behavior

After time together and that spark has faded what are some things you can try to get called sexy again?

He comments on my Facebook posts a lot and watches my stories, even though I never start conversations with him and I don’t really interact with him, so why is he paying me attention? He gives me quite a lot more attention than he does with other people. He also gives me career advice and is friendly but I don’t know if he just sees me as a friend or he wants something more? He’s 46 and used to teach me, maybe he’s not making a move because of the age gap and the fact that he was my uni professor? I don’t know. But it’s odd he comments on my posts when other uni professors I have on there don’t do that!

I don't mean a love triangle but a situation where two guys who know each other like the same girl.

Guy One:

• Never says hi
• Always checking to see the girl is looking at him but never makes a move
• Stares and watches from afar
• Talks about her with friends in front of her face but still never talks
• Will switch between staring and ignoring
• Can't really look her in the eye

Guy Two:

• Always give warm genuine smiles
• Always says hi, never hot and cold
• Does small nice things
• Flirts via eye contact but never stares without smiling
• Always looks for her in a crowded room
• Gets a little nervous.

Where are my Big Brothers? Guys, if you had a sister (or have) which guy would you pick for her?

*There's a poll but OPINIONS PLEASE! 😘

Either taking her out or showing off pics if she's not around

2 years ago I gave an acquaintance my phone number, which is something I already hate doing. For most calls he would either end the phone call after a few minutes to "see why 'she' is calling" or talk with people off the phone.

Important Side Note: He told me about a planned group outing with our mutuals and "someone else." I found out through social media that "someone else" was a girl I've seen around but never really spoke to. I suspect that "she" is the person he would cut our phone calls short to talk to. I thought it was really weird of him to hide that she was on the trip, especially since I recognized her; I literally don't care who he dates because I was only platonically interested in him at best. This incident, however, made me feel like being his friend was not a good idea.

One day, I told him that he should delete my number if he calls me again and exhibits poor phone etiquette. Like clockwork, the next time he called, he cut the call short because he couldn't understand why "she" was calling him. I told him to never call me again and promptly stopped answering calls and texts.

As time went on, he and "she" developed a relationship that he posted about. "She" recently had his baby. I was hanging out with some mutuals and he came around. I acknowledged him but cut my time short because I didn't want to spoil the mood. Since then he has been watching my social media stories, DMing me, and calling me. I have not responded.

A part of me feels bad for my lack of communication with him, but I also don't understand WHY he's trying to talk to me. A part of me wants to ask him why he's trying so hard to engage me when he should be tending to his girlfriend and his baby, and a part of me wonders if he's just trying to work on being friends. I personally do not trust this man and would rather he would accept that I told him to leave me alone 2 years ago than pursue a friendship.

WDYT?

If so then why?

Not really much to see up there

I really enjoyed watching this. It looks insane, but he had a plan, and he's so bizarrely calm lolol...

Original Video Caption:

"In the history of ideas, this is definitely one of them."

Can you come up with a better caption?

https://imgur.com/gallery/Vw7WU2d

Favourite Comments:

... as a pest control service manager... just a.. just a TAD wrong there bud. Just a little bittsy bit wrong there.

this looks like one of those corporate team building challenges where you're given a box of random items to create a solution with

The new Daft Punk video is fire.

daft punk really went downhill after they split

I was wondering what Daft Punk has been up to lately

I'm pretty sure they make insecticides specifically for these that don't do burn down your house.

Do they make shopvacs with a blender attachment inside instead of a filter? I feel like that would be slightly safer

I don't know what bothers me the most, the way they did this, or the fact that it seems to have worked!!!

I would be nervous about trusting my life on duct tape, but hey, astronauts did.

I appreciate the sheer confidence with which this person performs this task.

I'm just gonna say it. The house is still standing and he didn't set himself on fire so frankly that turned out FAR better than I was expecting. I'd just call it a win and go home. Bloody moron.

This could be as a child, a teenager or as an adult.

Come on, we know some of you have! ... don't be shy!

Girls, do you know guys that have done it?

The title kinda says it all. I (F 25) did ask him (M 29) the other day, and all he told me was that he likes to mark what's mine and its practice later. So, just to add in, we've been together for 6 years. He then proceeded to allow me to play fight with him like we always do; which always ended up with me being playfully restrained in a nice cuddly hug after. So I didn't think anything about it since he kinda always bit me to leave hickies that last for days. But I need to know what the hell he meant by practice for later.

So, to any guys that bite their partner, what the hell does my boyfriend mean by "practice for later"? I think I know, but I don't want to jump to any conclusions just yet.

we follow each other on twitter, recently I’ve noticed he’s looked at my twt likes from his account. I’ve looked at his too because im curious as to what he’s into. Is it a red flag that he’s going to be controlling or is he doing it for the same reasons i am

Last night me and my partner were taking selfies
We been together 4 years
He uploaded one of the pictures of us on social media and on his facebook stories too
So he can see who view it too

Then he asked me
“Babe… we look like a good couple right?
And i said “good as in?
And he replied “as in good looking couple…


Why would he ask me that?
He cares what people think of us?
He doesn't find me attractive?