Guys are more fat accepting then girls (Page 2)

[Humping_Tornadoes]

It's obvious people will get all butthurt with this image since it's quite true for the most part. I don't know if anyone will hate on any girl dating a fat guy (still you're going to get the "oh, he's probably rich" comments), but sure as hell women support fat girls when they land a skinny/average guy.

In the end, it's none of my business because a. I'll keep working on my body and try to look the best I can and b. I'm not looking for models, but I'm not attracted to fat chicks in the slightest. There's nothing better than living a healthy life and sharing it with someone who lives in a similar way. As what everyone else does with their health, fuck it Idc.

[Anonymous]

Just so you know the term "vagina between their legs" comes off as rude. If you don't intend to be rude, don't use it.
If you mean girls appear to get more attention just because they're females, I would suggest you say so clearly and explicitly.
Anyway, if you truly do have something against girls for getting more attention just for being a female, I suggest you do more research on this subject. You will probably find answers along the lines of self-esteem problems, being discriminated against a female sibling in your early childhood, not understanding true pros and cons of being a girl, not seeing life's problems from a girl's point of view, and many more interesting answers to your questions and insight into this resentment you have towards girls (through no fault of their's, so they don't really deserve your rude comments.)

[Fugue]

Generally, what you describe is rhetoric. The reality on the ground tells a different story. Other than people with a fetish for it, people don't accept fatness, they tolerate it if the person has something else to offer. Anything from personality to money... or just a pulse.

[jordan90]

I'm a big guy and I really have no problem meeting women. When you sit in front of a computer you over think everything. When you make eye contact, that shit really just does not matter. A connection with someone is made at a level very far from physical. If someone makes you feel good inside, doesn't matter what they look like or where they're from. The real special ones are when you both feel that way inside about each other. Looks are fleeting. Sure, you're hot. Let's date. But what do you then have to offer in 50 years?

[GingerBear]

I think you're probably right with this take, but I personally think people just shouldn't let themselves become that overweight.
Regardless, I'm certainly not attracted to it, and would never date an overweight person.

[alfonsosloan45]

I hope your not over weight

[GingerBear]

@alfonsosloan45 Absolutely not.

[Anonymous]

Its feminism, pure and simple. Fat girl gets skinny guy "you go girl" fat guy gets skinny girl, the man is a pig and the woman is stupid for being with him. The same for older/younger, Cougar gets a young guy "you go girl" old man gets a young woman, "disgusting pig!". I can go on and on about this, and how its not just limited to relationships, it could actually fill a book!

[RationalLioness]

No it is not. Please educate yourself.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I did. Stop trying to sell your bullshit!

[BigTuna]

@RationalLioness What about what he says is incorrect?

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing that is the problem they rely on insults and downvotes instead of facts and observation. Not very rational.

[Anonymous]

Simply put , women are really shallow creatures these days

Now , women will just want the guy who is PERFECT when they speak BF/GF life time cycle , but some of them will tell you ( look around , you will see many women with fat men so that proves you wrong )

Those cases , most of them are just that a woman who is a leftover from her 18-25 years , came to search for a man to marry , she knows if she went with the perfect amazing man who she always seeks that he will someway down the line will cheat on her , so she lowers her standards automatically , i have noticed that pattern of thought in many girls , like in 10 girls it was 9 who thought like that , in relationships they choose the less amazing man and for dating they choose the opposite , and the reasons are obvious for that pattern of thought...

So in the end , it's just one more shape of women's shallowness , sad but true

[myTake Owner]

All of them talk about love etc and get cheated on , average or not that good looking guy will probably never cheat on u, hot atracttive guys will 100% , if i was good looking with a six pack i would probably cheat all the time cause i can people rob cause they can , they commit crime cause they can.
Good looking people have different attitude from average ones

[Opinion Owner]

It's not the good/average/bad looking men's fault , it's the women who caused this whole issue to begin

Some women are good , just pray or hope to reach one of them , but know that you will struggle like many of your fellow male friends , these women that we all hope to reach are nothing but like 5 % of the whole female population ,,,

[Jxpxtxr]

I guess you know this because you've been a fat girl and made the experience before then?
That's the only way you could justify/proof what you're saying, so it must be that, right? ;)

[vishna]

"90% of fat girls dont wanna date fat guys and they think they deserve someone better just cause they have vagina between their legs."

Here ya go guys, stop the press, he knows what 90% of women feel about this.

I dated a bigger guy, a tall thin guy, and a very thin guy. 0 fucks given based on the status of having a vagina between my legs. Fucks were given based on how they treated me and others.

[Tanuron]

This is sadly very true. I seen so so so so many skinny guys with "fat" girls, but I never in my life seen personally the opposite, not even once. I do think guys frequently just care less about looks, they just love women, like a lot. It dosent matter the shape or size, but other way around seem like a real rarity. Makes you feel pretty damn screwed in life if you are even just overweight at all.

[GirlsLie]

I prefer thinner guys but i've seen some attractive chubby guys that I would date if I liked their personality.

I think women are just more attractive in general than men are, we put more into our appearance most of the time. And that goes for overweight women as well. They may be overweight but still have nice breast, a big butt that guys enjoy, a pretty face etc.

[pavlove]

beauty is feminized, it's considered a feminine trait hence "the pretty boy" insult. i think uglier guys are seen as more masculine.

[GirlsLie]

That's a good point too.

I just think women have more parts to enjoy for the most part lol it's just the way we're made, so comparing men and women as far as appearances go really isn't a fair comparison to begin with.

[beccaboo2]

I disagree, I've seen more overweight men with thin women than the other way around. My own boyfriend is medically obese while I'm in a normal weight range.
I've had a lot of guy friends and very few of them would be caught dead with a chubby girl. A friend of mine is very overweight and was bullied a lot by guys. She's currently dating a chubby guy.

[DisastrousQu33n]

Both face and body count a lot for me tbh. Personality seals the deal, but let's be honest, looks is what first catches people's attention.

And men stay slim much easier biologically than women do, and its much easier for your average male to lose weight compared to your average woman.

[Entereality]

"Let's be honest..." OK I will. Personality is what caches my attention the most.

[thewanderingme]

@entereality bull shit.

[Entereality]

@thewanderingme How do you know?

[DisastrousQu33n]

@Entereality I didn't say what catches attention most, I said wh catches attention first.

[Scooby225]

That is true. Looks catches attention a lot faster than personality

[Hidden_P]

It totally depends on the person.

I absolutely love my boyfriend. He's got a little pot belly. Why? Because he loves my cooking and can't help himself and frankly I take that as flattery. But also, I'm not perfect. If he was gorgeous, perfect body, perfect personality, I would feel unworthy. There is more to life than your waistline, and in my eyes a waistline can be changed, but a personality can not.

People should want to look after themselves, but it shouldn't define them.

[love2run13]

Overweight people should stop bitching about "oh no one accepts me or wants a relationship with me cuz of my looks", just take some pride in your body by looking your best and eating healthy and getting exercise or stay overweight and find another overweight person to be with, its that simple-most people of normal weight or great shape aren't attracted to overweight or fat people cuz we can't do active things with them

[cinderelli]

Fat and obesity.. is not attractive.. regardless of gender.. and too much generalization going on here.. haven't you read about the dad bod fetish.. lol..

[BlackDynamite83]

I wouldn't call it a fetish its more of an acceptance of men who have just become fathers and can no longer attend a gym as they dont have the time. I think the Dad bod thing is seen as attractive because it marks you out as good father as your too busy earning a living for you family and spending time with your kids to work out. I just became a dad four months ago and its been about six months since I worked out and im starting to pack on some serious beef, desperately need to get my ass to the gym to loose the baby weight but I ain't got the time.

[cinderelli]

@BlackDynamite83 hence.. a fetish.. lol.. kids don't mean you have to let yourself go.. we don't get time. We have to make time.. 😊

[BlackDynamite83]

Obviously your not a parent yet lol

[Enigmatically]

Facts. I really do agree with you, OP. I used to be the 90%, too (except for the fat part, no offense to anyone). Overtime I got over it. I can't expect every guy to look like a hot, Abercrombie & Fitch model squinting off into the distance. It may be hard to believe when I say this but I got past the 'judging by appearance' matter. If a guy is "fat" and has an awesome personality I could like him just as much as I would like any other guy.

[kodalinell]

Everyone these days just has way too high expectations, girls and boys. Girls are expected to look like hourglass Miranda Kerr's, while men are expected to look like Zayn Malik with a six pack. We just need to accept that NOBODY IS PERFECT and that girl with tiny tits can be just as good at sex or videogames, or that boy with no muscles can be an amazing kisser with a charming voice.

[BelleGirl21]

Yeah I'm not into fat men and I don't think I should have to apologize for that.

[bloodmountain1990]

Nor should you. I don't mind thickness/curvyness but I'm definitely not attracted to overweight/obese women either and don't think I should have to apologize either.

What it really comes down to is preferences.

[BigTuna]

Of course you shouldn't. However if you were fat yourself, and felt entitled to someone who isn't, that would be another story.

It's normal to not be attracted to fat people. I'm fat myself, and I'm not attracted to fat women. That's why I'm working on the issue, along with the health concerns. But I don't expect someone to find me attractive, when I don't find women my size attractive either. But it's the entitlement that's the issue, of people expecting if to be different for *them*

[BelleGirl21]

You bring up a really good point @BigTuna

[thegreatone7]

@BelleGirl21 you don't need to take this myTake that way. It's all personal when it comes to choosing partners and varies as per the individual. I think you agrrlee with this.

[Watermelonoma]

in my opinion, girls are less demanding across the board than guys are where looks are concerned. The only thing looks wise that matters more to women than men is your race. Being white is right when it comes to getting the most female attention, and you can go down the list from there

[Lonewolf_1296]

Actually, studies show that women are more accepting of other races but will not date someone of a different race if that will cause trouble at home, with their male relatives.

[BelleGirl21]

I agree with @lonewolf_1296 personally I'm drawn to darker men but immediately worry about how to introduce them to my family.