You Are Not "Curvy", You're Fat

[Anonymous]

I feel this needs to be cleared up.

Girls, I'm all for body empowerment, but at some point, you have to realize that a lot of you are overweight and that is not something to be proud of or define as sexy.

What most of you define as "curvy" or "thick" is what men and healthy women define as fat.

Here are the differences of bodies for you.

Above is a slim/skinny/petite girl

This is a fit/athletic girl

Up here is a curvy/thick/voluptuous girl

Now THIS

IS

FAT

These are not sexy, or curvy, or thick. These are not "just a little chubby". These are fat.

And that is all I have to say.

[madhatters4]

an overweight (or fat person can be curvy too)

for example the last picture is she has a smaller waist i'd classify her as curvy

curvy to me is not about weight necessarily but rather the hip to waist ratio. now obese people aren't usually curvy because their waste has the fat deposits but a big girl (for example the last pick you posted) could be curvy

[Cloud914]

I agree completely. The last one was defenitely curvy. Side note: Definitely my kind of girl. 😀🙌🏼

[broozhy]

@Cloud914 You are so right. All night long!

[Anonymous]

I have PCOS. My fat does not accumulate in the thighs and breasts; it accumulates in the belly region. It is quite common for PCOS-women to have enlarged bellies. I'm only a few pounds away toward a healthier weight, though. But I'm still wearing loose-fitting clothes.

[BeeNee]

Awe, sweet, yet another angry post telling woman "how they ought to be," because someone said so, and that someone is like so totally angry that the world doesn't work the way they demand it should.

I'm glad you have an opinion on how the world works, we all do, but curvy means different things to different people. So do beautiful, pretty, thin, tall, short. Everything is relative and you can't define what someone else feels or thinks about the way someone else looks because its arbitrary and in the eye of the beholder. I mean, what do you accomplish by shouting to the world that this or isn't curvy? Nothing. Nothing has changed, the same people who are curvy the way they define it, are still going to define it that way, and those men who find all types of women attractive are still going to find them attractive the way they see curvy.

Don't stress yourself out. You're too young for that. Instead, try promoting women being healthy, as in getting regular exercise and eating right, and not just taking a look at someone and deciding based on, what I can only guess are, your super human powered eyes, that they are unfit, or not curvy, or not healthy. So many women, no matter the size have cellulite and fat deposits around the body AND they may still be working out 5 days a week. If you don't want to be judged harshly, don't judge others.

[lanternhill]

I go by the attention I get.
I see photos of gorgeous women - guys describe them as average or basic. I ask why and hear it's because they have symmetrical, beautiful, but not striking features - like average but dolled up. The point of that is that what guys find sexy isn't always what I assume they find sexy.
I used to feel huge and I still don't feel tiny despite having lost weight - but given the type of attention I get, I feel fine about how I look, thank God.
Women are told in this society that their value is in the way they look and that to me is just sad. I spent way too many years feeling bad about myself, especially given the type of attention I received. Y'all need to calm down and stop acting like your sexiness is threatened just because someone with a body shape you don't agree with claims to be sexy. Guess what - maybe some men find her way hotter than you. There are guys out there who might think I'm ugly and I don't care - I might find them the same. I don't feel the need to put down all skinny women or all Latina women or all _______ women. Also, putting someone down smacks of insecurity, which - newsflash - isn't attractive.
Be healthy, be happy, and don't stomp on others' self-esteem. Many fat people or those who are nearly fat stomp on it enough themselves.
For the record, yes I prefer tall jacked dudes but also skinnier guys and occasionally the bigger husky "fat guys." It depends on the guy.

[RJGraveyTrain]

"I'm all for body empowerment"

*Blatantly shames women's bodies and tells them to not take pride in their appearance or regard themselves as sexy*

Uuuuh hows about we just let people love themselves instead of trying to be dictators of what is or isn't sexy? If someone loves their big chubby belly and wants to call themselves curvy, that's their business. I don't get all of these people who think that people don't have the right to do whatever the fuck they want and love themselves.

People are dying, children are starving, global warming could literally kill our children in the future, and we're complaining about people LOVING THEMSELVES BEING A PROBLEM.

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[blessed_curse]

:D (y)

[Tarnygosh]

Say it louder for the people at the back

[RJGraveyTrain]

@Tarnygosh I'd happily do so.

[CHARismatic110]

Love youuu

[RJGraveyTrain]

@CHARismatic110 I love you too angel face.

[babylips14]

Well said OP!

[RJGraveyTrain]

@babylips14 Thank you.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Tell em girl!

[RJGraveyTrain]

@BuchitaBuchys Oh I got it honey, I got it.

[Rcjh1987]

amen to that whatever helps make people sleep at night I guess. but seriously agree with people caring others view themselves and not the real issues that are going on

[fuqthegovt]

Don't have children then global warming or whatever other future disasters there are won't matter. Most of the projections are by 2100. Personally I don't care since if I have the misfortune of living to 127 trying to wipe my own ass by then will be a bigger problem than sea level rise.

[EthaParez]

I am disabled so I struggle with my weight. However I am healthy. I eat healthy, and I stay active. However I still stay the same weight. So you can say I am fat. That does not make a difference to me. I am a human being who struggles to walk normally because of my cerebral palsy. Yet I still push myself. If you think I am ugly then do not look. If you do not like it then that is not my problem. My doctor has told me time and time again that I am healthy and am not at risk for any health problems. My blood pressure is normal, and I eat far less junk food that I used to. Makes no difference.

[Laura_Marx]

yup <333333

[CHARismatic110]

https://imgur.com/z1bPvGT.jpg

Just gonna sit this picture of my fat, curvy ass body here without a fuck to give who likes it or doesn't like it. Good day now.

[babylips14]

That's the spirit! You look great! Unfortunately many girls, regardless of how they look, have low self-esteems because of negative comments about body image such as the ones made in this post -___-

[CHARismatic110]

@babylips14 thank you! And yes, I agree. I went to an all girls high-school so I saw first hand. It's really sad.

[BellePepper]

Omg char! Can we just stop and admire how freaking you and your phone case look rn? 😍

[adrianalima0]

Dayumn girl. 😍😍😍

[Elisa13]

You are so freaken sexy girl! PS- Im sure sooo many guys think your sexy af too <3 Finally someone stood up to the owner of this mytake!

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 So when fat women complain about people not liking them, it is okay because of 'body shaming' and all of that junk but when a fat man does the same, he is a bitter loser who hates women? Talk about hypocrisy. Until I see Larry the Cable Guy in Titanic, I will never take you women seriously.

[CHARismatic110]

@JRICHARDS1996 the only people that say that about guys are other guys

[CHARismatic110]

@BellePepper lol thannnks

[CHARismatic110]

@adrianalima0 😘😘

[CHARismatic110]

@Elisa13 lol awww thanks ❤

[Pilulu]

You're not curvy. You're fat.

[CHARismatic110]

@Pilulu learn how to read, dipshit.

[Pilulu]

Well, I don't give a fuck either.

[JRICHARDS1996]

Really? Well then I guess every fat woman I've seen who has openly stated that she would only date tall muscular men was lying. Overweight women don't like overweight men and that is that. And if that is okay for them, then it is okay for regular men to dislike overweight man (not that I've ever personally insulted you for your weight).

[babylips14]

@JRICHARDS1996 why are you so hurt? Were you rejected by a volumptous woman or something?

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 No. But I've seen too many overweight women say hateful things toward my mother and behave catty toward her for no reason whatsoever, just because she is not fat like them. So I'm going to take a stand against this fat acceptance nonsense because it is a load of hypocrisy.

[CHARismatic110]

@JRICHARDS1996 I literally never, ever hear fat women say that. Ever.

[babylips14]

@JRICHARDS1996 you're generalizing all "fat" women by saying that they all behave like the ones who start shit with your mother. Plus, how do you know that they're starting shit with her just because "she's not fat"? What if she's just a bitch to them? No offense.

[babylips14]

@JRICHARDS1996 weight has nothing to do with someone's personality. Skinny, fat, average people can be mean and disgusting. In fact, when I was in middle school, the prettiest/thinnest girls in the class were the ones who started shit with me and made fun of my body, yet I wasn't even fat. You obviously have something personal against overweight women and the only way that can be corrected is through counseling. Arguing back and forth on here isn't going to hurt anyone here, but yourself.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 Because I have been there to witness it and see who the true aggressor was. If you ask me, the less attractive people like fatties are a lot meaner than the really attractive people. Everyone assumes it's the other way around but I have seen differently. You'd be amazed at how many average girls have rejected me but how many really attractive ones have shown interest. You can believe what you want, but please don't force it upon me and stay out of men's media which prefers thin women. Unless of course you want Larry the Cable Guy and Michael Moore to replace Leonardo DiCaprio.

[CHARismatic110]

@JRICHARDS1996 you have issues and it's sad.

[babylips14]

@JRICHARDS1996 "If you ask me, the less attractive people like fatties are a lot meaner than the really attractive people"---you can't possibly think more childishly.

"You'd be amazed at how many average girls have rejected me but how many really attractive ones have shown interest"---Don't flatter yourself. No girl, skinny or fat, would want to be with someone so full of hatred and narcissism. If you're the guy in the photo, you're not even close to looking like Brad Pitt anyways, so don't even try to pretend that you're any "better" than someone who is overweight.

"but please don't force it upon me and stay out of men's media which prefers thin women"---Say that to the millions of Kim and Khloe Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, JLo, and Beyonce male admirers LOL. And see how they respond.

Like I've said already, think whatever you want, like whoever you want, but just realize that no one really gives a shit about how you feel because most men don't even share your tastes.

[babylips14]

OP, this guy obviously suffers from what psychologists call an "inferiority complex".

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 There is nothing childish about the truth. If anything, I'm being realistic by acknowledging that a lot of less than attractive people are mean just as males are on this website. So it is with fat women.

Kim Kardashian and Jay Lo are not the same as Beyoncé and Ashley Graham. The former are truly curvy while the latter are F-A-T fat. The only reason some men like them, and I'm going to be blatantly honest with you as a male, is because of the assets. That is, oversized breasts and buttocks.

If they could get a thin woman with the same thing, they would choose her over the fatty any day.

You don't think I have a mirror at home? I know that I am not very attractive. Except I'm not delusional enough to try to force the world into believing otherwise. I'm not weaseling my way into women's media. I'm not shaming you for preferring hunks over me.

Yet fat women cannot extend this same courtesy to men.

[babylips14]

@JRICHARDS1996 "Kim Kardashian and Jay Lo are not the same as Beyoncé and Ashley Graham. The former are truly curvy while the latter are F-A-T fat. The only reason some men like them, and I'm going to be blatantly honest with you as a male, is because of the assets. That is, oversized breasts and buttocks". ---You just said a moment ago that the media prefers thin women right? Now you're changing your stance because you know for a fact that Kim K and JLo ARE NOT thin and they have millions of admirers. Beyonce fat? You're kidding right? You also just said in another post that "fatties" have nothing to offer and now you're saying that guys only like them because of their assets. Now I'm convinced that you're just a troll who was rejected by a big girl. A very insecure troll. Enough said.

[babylips14]

For the last fucking time, I will say that no one gives a shit about who you like. Just don't try to shove your hatred and generalized shit about curvy AND overweight girls down our throats like you're doing right now.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 You mean like you are doing by weaseling your way into the swimsuit issue and invading male media? I've already repeated ad nauseam that I do not care if a woman is fat. My problem however is only that fat women are trying to force society into accepting them. There is no contradiction because as I pointed out earlier on, the amount of men who like heavier women pales in comparison to the amount who do not. They are the minority. And the women you appealed to like Kim K and JayLo are not true fat like Ashley Graham, but occupy a purgatory in the middle. Another example of how so few people like fat.

[babylips14]

@JRICHARDS1996 Your definition of "fat" is not consistent with how the rest of the male population defines fat. You just said a moment ago that Beyonce was fat. Like seriously?
No one is invading the male media. You want to know why? Because you don't represent the male media. The male media emphasizes curviness as defined by big asses, boobs, thighs. Why don't you look at a porn website and see how the most popular videos have to do with big asses/boobs?
What is the problem with fat women wanting to be accepted? Would you want to be bashed and shamed for being a weak-looking, skinny guy? That's right.
Once again, no one is trying to force ANYONE to like big girls. How many times do we have to repeat this? We're just trying to defend all the ignorant shit talk you've been doing against girls who happen to be overweight, for the last several hours.

Like I said, look up "skinny girls attractive" on the search results of this site. You'll see exactly what I'm talking about.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 Fat =/= Big boobs and big butt

A fat women may have those things by default but having those things does not always equate to being fat. A thin woman can just as well have those, though admittedly it is rarer.

I already am shamed for being a skinny and less than attractive male. You yourself did it by calling me ugly and insulting me ad nauseam in this conversation. When was the last time you saw a guy like me in a woman's magazine like Ashley Graham in SI/Maxim? When have you seen a guy like me in a leading film role like the fatties in Ghostbusters?

I'll give you a hint: never.

I am at the absolute bottom of the totem pole.

Yet I am not complaining about it. I recognize that the vast majority of the women prefer a different sort of guys. And I am okay with that. Instead of trying to change female opinion and dictate what they can and cannot like, I would rather try to change myself.

[helloitsmethere]

So... is no one going to mention how good her hair looks? No one? Just me? Okay...
I want your hair. It looks beautiful.
Plus, I wish I had your confidence <3

[babylips14]

@JRICHARDS1996 What do you have to say about the people who don't consider Beyonce to be fat? That's right. You're just a troll.

[naturaldeven4]

you're just fat tbh

[naturaldeven4]

@JRICHARDS1996 i know this crap dude. This is why i consistently reject disgusting fat girls

[CHARismatic110]

@naturaldeven4 and you look like something I flushed down my toilet.

[LaVilaine]

He does though 😂😂😂

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 They're either Black, women whose opinions are irrelevant since we are primarily talking about men, only after the assets which they would just as soon prefer on a thin girl if possible, and/or only seeing photoshopped images of her like her laughable SI cover back in 2007.

[CHARismatic110]

@helloitsmethere I'm just seeing this, but thank you so much!!! ❤

[KrazyGirl70]

You look great!

[CHARismatic110]

@KrazyGirl70 thank you!

[KrazyGirl70]

Np keep it up!

[CHARismatic110]

@fuqthegovt lmao gtfoh old man. Idc if no one is attracted to me. Get a life.

[LittleSally]

This has been done... to... death...

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[BellePepper]

Hey anon. Do you know how I can tell you're ashamed of your "opinion" and know you shouldn't have posted it?

You posted this anonymously.

Do you know how I can tell that you were a "fat girl" who lost weight?

Because you're so damn hung up on what the words may or not mean. You worked just *SO* hard to lose that weight didn't you? But you're still insecure about how other people look and feel about you. Hopefully you can work on that. lovelace-media.imgix.net/.../...7-0e17bac22e39.gif

[myTake Owner]

I've been as skinny as a twig my entire life 😂 But okay Mrs Psychologist

[BellePepper]

Please OP. Lying is *such* a bad look for you.

[mistixs]

Yeah I'm so fat right?

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Lol. Nah, I'm slim. I just wanted an excuse to post that picture because I like it.

Anyway... all of those girls look fine. & Plenty of guys are into girls who look like that, and find them sexy.

A friend of mine, who is a camboy - they do sexy things in front of a camera for an audience who pays them - showed me a camming website, and it had a bunch of different people camming, and you can enter a room, & there was one with a really fat girl, & there were plenty of guys there giving her money and cheering her on.

[YourFutureEx]

THANK YOU SO FUCKING MUCH!!! LOVE YOU OP!
YOU GIRLS ARE FAT. OBESE! DIABETIC! LAZY! PROTEIN HATER! CARB LOVER! YOU PREFER McD OVER VEGGIE. SEE THE PICTURES. THIS IS THE DIFFERENCE. STOP DERIDING THE VALUES OF MY LOVELY CURVY GIRLS.
(exceptions apart who are suffering from genetic or any other diseases & who are doing hardwork)

(Let me add some words in small letters too so that obese mods and feminists who found this post offensive couldn't hide it under grammer)

[Laura_Marx]

you are such a beta male -.-

[Afrochick]

lol chill

[CHARismatic110]

Seriously? You're trying wayyyy too hard to be a dick. That's not even you. And most people here know that. But carry on. Don't let my obese mod ass stop you bro. ✌

[YourFutureEx]

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@Laura_Marx Nope. That doesn't define me. If you want to insult, at least make sense first.
@Afrochick Okay :)
@CHARismatic110 Look,
#1. Obese ≠ Curvy. Just because they have "curves" it won't make them curvy. It's being too PC. And if it does, then skinny girls are curvy too, no one is a plain cardboard.
#2. I'm obese too. Yeah I said that. At least I have guts to admit that. I have muscles definition too. But I don't use it as smokescreen to call myself a bodybuilder.
#3. @Chief16 is right. "Who cares". This thing happens only on internet, especially on G@G. No obese girl irl calls oneself curvy, at least in front of us men. I think this is just a negative internet drama. You're right, I shouldn't waste my time on such negativity.

Yes, I tried wayyyy too hard. I always do. I push my limits, that's why I get better and better. I was diabetic yesterday, I'm obese today, I'll be fit tomorrow and a beast overmorrow.

[YourFutureEx]

and you are in 'exception' since you do 'hardwork'. It's your choice to take positivity or negativity out of my opinion.

[JRICHARDS1996]

I completely agree. I am tired of ugly fat chicks and their effeminate beta male lapdogs trying to shame me for preferring thin women over their overweight selves. Stay out of my swimsuit issue and I'll stay out of your diet. Instead of trying to change society, change yourself.

[adrianalima0]

You're the effeminate beta male lol

[JRICHARDS1996]

@adrianalima0 No. I still adhere to traditional values and masculinity. Now I'm not the most handsome man alive--nothing close--but unlike the fat women, I am not trying to force society to accept me for something I am not. I know that I'm less attractive and that women prefer more attractive men. That is more than you can say about fat women. I would rather try to change myself opposed to society.

[adrianalima0]

Nobody is forcing you to like fat or slightly fat/chubby women. They're just getting people to treat them like the human beings they are and also to cater to the people that PREFER chubby people. You do know that your taste in women is not the only type that exists some people like chubby or super fat women, right? Some people are just fatter than others. It's really not the end of the world. There's no reason to get angry or anything like that, it's largely genetic. I don't get angry when I see some super fugly or fat guy. It is what it is. Some people are so fkn immature its ridiculous. Some people have to work harder at being thin than others. That is a fact. Appearance is something most people don't have a lot of control over and there is more to the person than what they look like such as behavior, personality, intelligence, talent, etc. I swear some of you have no empathy or souls whatsoever. Just nasty demons running around.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@adrianalima0 Again, I am not angry that some women are fat. Their choice. I am angry rather that fat women are trying to redefine beauty so that they can weasel their way into the SI swimsuit issue and shame regular men like myself simply for preferring thin women. That is not even mentioning their bitter hostility toward pretty thin women. They accuse them of promiscuity and objectifying themselves, yet they themselves do the exact same thing to an even larger extent when given the opportunity.

Nobody ever said that some men do not prefer fat women. But I will tell you right now as a man that they are few and far in between. They are the exception to the norm like foot fetishists as myself. Thus their opinion is not representative of the whole. Frankly I'm tired of women trying to speak for men and act as if they know what we want or how we are.

The truth is the majority of us like thin women.

[adrianalima0]

Beauty is SUBJECTIVE. Again some people consider that body type to be beautiful so they cater to that. I know its shocking to your uncalled for narcissism but not everyone finds what you like beautiful. The SI issue is catering to the men that DO like women like Ashley Graham because there are many that do. Fat women have the right to like themselves without pricks like you trying to make them feel like shit.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@adrianalima0 What you call 'liking' yourselves I call narcissism. If there is something wrong with yourself then you either try to fix it or you at least come to peace with it. But you do not become 'proud' of it anymore than you would be proud of dropping out of school. And you certainly do not belong in a swimsuit issue that is a celebration of female beauty--the most beautiful of the beautiful--anymore than a dropout deserves an academic award from Harvard. You did not earn it.

Again, the men who actually like fatties are a tiny minority and are few and far in between. Furthermore you have no excuse. My mother had three children yet she is still thin and people mistake her for my sister (see my cover picture). If she can do it then there is no reason why the rest of you fatties cannot.

[adrianalima0]

Are you kidding me? Are you really going to talk about narcissism? Fat girls aren't commonly narcissistic and if they are they are not any worse or better than skinny women. Last time I checked I don't see fat women taking a million selfies of themselves on social media like skinny women do so lol please save the bullshit for a much stupider person. You say fat people should be at peace with themselves yet types such as you are always the ones calling them ugly, worthless, stupid, lazy, whales, pigs, etc. Get off your moral high ground: you don't have any. How about this? Worry about yourself and stop shaming any body type. Its not any of your business what they do with their bodies and lives. If you don't like them then just look away. It's not like you're a prize to look at yourself, you're ugly inside and out. Did you really just compare a swimsuit magazine to Harvard lol!!! Being beautiful is not an achievement its 95% genetics 5% effort.

[adrianalima0]

"Beauty is a gift, just like good health or intelligence. The only thing is not to be proud of being beautiful. Because you didn't do anything - it was given to you.”-- Monica Bellucci
Your mother has the genetics to keep her skinny no matter what. Not every women has that because shocker... not everyone is the same.

[babylips14]

@adrianalima0 I already explained to him that personality has nothing to do with weight. He can believe whatever he wishes, but as you can see, the vast majority of the world population doesn't share the same idea.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 On the contrary, it does. Say what you want about me, but the amount of men who prefer thin women far surpasses the amount who prefer fatties. Ashley Graham is just affirmative action to keep overweight women happy, political correctness like letting one Black kid into a racist institution. If you don't believe me, then just look at porn statistics. Virtually none of those women are fat except for those who have a fetish for them.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@adrianalima0 Skinny women have a reason to be proud. They earned their beauty. Hence it is not narcissistic. Fat women have no reason to be proud of their body. Hence it is narcissism, a false sense of pride. Ashley Graham certainly does everything you accuse skinny women of doing, yet she is fat. But let me guess, it is okay for her but not for skinny women? Just like it is okay for fatties to sleep around but not skinny women? Beauty is not 95% genetic because my mom did not just wake up out of bed like that. She earned it through hours at the gym and careful calorie counting. You are trying to justify your own mistakes.

Again, you can be fat. But quit trying to force regular men to like it. Especially when you yourselves are picky and have muscular hunky men in Cosmo. Would you like Larry the Cable Guy and Michael Moore to invade women's media instead?

[JRICHARDS1996]

@adrianalima0 Who taught you that quote? Your liberal crypto-Marxist sociology professor? Bullshit. Beauty is an achievement just like prosperity, skill, and success is. You acquire it because you earn it, just as my mother does at the gym and like every supermodel, athlete, and businessman out there does. You can tell yourself it has nothing to do with accomplishment if that makes you feel better, but it is blatantly false.

[babylips14]

You are very misinformed. In fact, statistically (there have been polls done on this btw), the vast majority of guys would rather date a size 8 girl with big ass and boobs, than a size 0, flat chested twig girl. You're entitled to like and be attracted to whoever you want, but you can't speak for the vast majority of the male population. The terms overweight and skinny are subjective. Runway models can't be any bigger than a size 2, otherwise they would be considered "fat". I still can't understand what your definition of fat is, but the point is that others may not necessarily share the same definition. Plus everyone is attached to something different. Just because you don't like big girls, doesn't mean that there aren't millions of guys who love big asses and boobs.

[adrianalima0]

No just no. Narcissism is ugly on everyone skinny or fat, beautiful or ugly. Humility is a virtue many people in this society don't understand anymore. While I could care less if a fat or skinny person is on the cover on some magazine nobody has the right to put other people down based. It's a swimsuit cover not a nobel peace prize magazine. It's sadistic behavior regardless. Which I shouldn't be surprised most human beings are sadistic evil, monstrous, animalistic, hedonistic pieces of shits that don't reserve any redemption whatsoever.
Honey, that quote came from Monica Bellucci herself one of the most beautiful women in the world. A woman 10 thousand times more beautiful than any of the women in the OP and can dream of looking like. Look it up yourself.
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[babylips14]

Plus that comment that you made to adrianalima0 just shows your lack of understanding and ignorance of how the world works. How old are you really? You said "fat women have nothing to be proud of"... I would believe that to be true if big girls didn't have big boobs and asses to offer, which like I said before, millions of guys universally, can't wait to touch.

[adrianalima0]

Laetitia Casta, another stunner and a supermodel has said similar things too
"When I began as a model, everybody tried to remold me: I was too fat, too little, they tried to re-shape my teeth - I am very proud that I have stayed as I was."

Doutzen Kroes as well...
"I have to work really hard. I have a voluptuous body. I am not one of those skinny girls. I like to enjoy life." — Doutzen Kroes

"A rose can never be a sunflower, and a sunflower can never be a rose. All flowers are beautiful in their own way, and that’s like women too. I want to encourage women to embrace their own uniqueness." — Miranda Kerr
What is ridiculous is that even thin women get called fat. There is NO point in wasting energy to please a nobody piece of shit. Just be happy with yourself and love yourself and the right people will come to you. Somebody who ONLY likes you for your looks is not a person to be around to begin with. It's ugly to put other people down who are just trying to enjoy life.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 Pornography and the fashion industry says otherwise. Where did you get that statistic? The Daily Mail? Lol. You said it yourself: the only reason some guys like fat women is because of the assets. Otherwise they would just as soon leave a fat girl the moment a skinny girl with the same came along.

You just did the same thing by calling skinny women 'twigs.' But I'm supposed to respect you? Talk about hypocrisy. Who is the male here? I am. And I'm just being honest with you. You are the one who claims to know better than a male about what males like, yet you don't like the truth so you are trying to force lies upon us.

I don't need to appeal to my own standard. BMI is the objective standard and all of those fatties like Ashley Graham have a bad BMI rating.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@adrianalima0 I am sorry. But I am NOT going to allow fat women to dictate what is and is not beautiful, and to try to shame me for my tastes as a man. Nor am I going to allow them to blame their inadequacies on genetics. BMI is objective whether they like it or not and fat women have a bad BMI rating. You said it yourself: some men only like them because of the oversized assets. But they would just as soon leave them for a thin woman with the same. I say this not to be mean, but to be honest. You women still can't get it through your heads: you do NOT know what men like! Certainly not more than I as a man do.

[babylips14]

No one is trying to force you to like big girls and no one really gives a shit about who you're into. Everyone is just trying to defend the ignorance and generalizations you are putting out there about girls simply because of how much they weigh.

Look up skinny girls attractive on the search results of this site. Here's one: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q239170-are-really-skinny-girls-attractive

"But I am NOT going to allow fat women to dictate what is and is not beautiful, and to try to shame me for my tastes as a man."---But we have to allow average-looking, skinny, ignorant Joes to dictate what is beautiful and what's not and shame other guys who like bigger girls? Talk about hypocrisy.

"you do NOT know what men like!"-- LOL You are the male, but again, you can't speak on behalf of most males which don't share your tastes and ideas of size 0 women. That's just the reality.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 Yes it is the reality. By default I know more than you do whether you want to admit it or not. The amount of men who prefer fat women is tiny compared to the amount who do not. If you do not believe me, then just look at all of the male comments to this MyTake. Look at the pornography industry. Look at the fashion industry. Fat is fat and it will never be attractive no matter how much you try to sexualize it or speak for men.

[babylips14]

If you haven't noticed by now, The porn industry is filled with women who get plastic procedures and body enhancements, to appeal to the vast majority of the male population, which consists of those who are big ass/boobs admirers. The only industry where women are expected to have no ass and be flat chested is in the modeling industry.
Try saying that to Kim K, Khloe, and Jlo admirers, who by the way, are considered to be the sexiest and most admired women in the world. You don't know anything at all. You're just a kid who suffers from an inferiority complex and is taking is anger out on overweight girls.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 Say that to Marisa Miller, Heidi Klum, Meghan Fox, and Giselle Bundchen, each of whom are thin yet also regarded as the most beautiful women in the world. You keep equivocating large assets with being fat when in reality the two are not synonymous. Men who like fat women like them not because they are fat but because of the assets. If they could find a thin woman who has them--like Marisa Miller--they would leave the fatties in a New York minute.

[babylips14]

You just a moment ago, you just said that Beyonce was fat, when 99% of the world population would disagree...
As far as beauty standards, millions of men find Kim and Khloe Kardashian way better looking than any of the VS models or Megan Fox. No one even talks about Megan Fox anymore. You don't even like overweight women, so how could you know why the men who do like them, admire them? Other than for having big boobs/ass, It could also be that they like bigger girls because skin that makes bones visible, disgusts them. I actually had a guy friend tell me that once. Fucking a skinny girl makes them feel like they're fucking a piece of bone.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 She is fat and I stand by that statement. I similarly stand by the statement that the amount of men who like fat women pales in comparison to the amount who do not. And those few who do like them only because of the assets, which are not synonymous with being fat since a thin girl can likewise have them. I've also had countless guys tell me that having sex with a piece of blubber is also disgusting, a lot more than the other way around.

Look, you can be fat. But you are not going to change male opinion in the end nor are you going to change me. You seem to be trying to dictate what is beautiful and to shame men for not liking you, and that is what I disagree with. Ashley Graham in SI was just the straw that broke the camel's back. I do not want fat women trying to dictate my media as a male.

You never answered: how would you feel about a guy like me, or worse, Larry the Cable Guy or Michael Moore starring in a film like Titanic or going shirtless in Cosmopolitan?

[babylips14]

And I stand by the comment that most guys are disgusted by skinny chicks, which porn and even responses on this site have proven to be true. Notice how there is a bbw fetish, but not the other way around for ultra skinny girls. That's right. Most guys are disgusted by skin and bones whether you admit it or not. And most guys would take a size 8 before they would take a size 0 girl.

"You seem to be trying to dictate what is beautiful and to shame men for not liking you, and that is what I disagree with."--- How many times does one have to say that no one cares what you like? People are just annoyed with the fact that you keep fat-shaming big women and making false generalizations about them. You can't dictate what is beautiful or not either.
"I do not want fat women trying to dictate my media as a male."--- You are not "the media" and don't represent it either.

fyi No one gives a shit about what you think about Ashley Graham either, since you've mentioned her about 1000x in this

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 Lol the vast majority of chicks in porn are not fat. You know why there is a fetish for them and not for skinny women? Because skinny women are the default sort of woman that men like and fat women are the exception. Fetishes are just that: exceptions to the norm, a small niche market. Notice again how you are shaming thin women while criticizing fellows like me for speaking out against fat women. Nice hypocrisy.

Again, you never answered my question. Would you or would you not like to see a man like myself, or Larry the Cable Guy or Michael Moore, shirtless in a woman's magazine or as the leading male actor in a film like Titanic?

Dismiss it as preference all you want, but until you are okay with less attractive men dictating your media as a woman, do not try to do the same with mine as a man.

[babylips14]

"the vast majority of chicks in porn are not fat"---They are not size 0's either.

You know why there is a fetish for them and not for skinny women? Because skinny women are the default sort of woman that men like and fat women are the exception.---Not necessarily. Like I said, most girls shown in porn are not as skinny as you like them to be and size 0 is not "the default" for the vast majority of the male population. Why do you think that they are often the subjects of ridicule and "skinny-shaming"?

"Dismiss it as preference all you want, but until you are okay with less attractive men dictating your media as a woman, do not try to do the same with mine as a man."---No one is trying to dictate your media. I'm just stating what the reality of life is. Your fellow male peers would agree.

[babylips14]

fyi: take a look about what other users have to say about Beyonce's body shape:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2054197-do-you-think-that-beyonce-is-fat

[adrianalima0]

What part can you get through your thick egg-shaped skull that nobody is trying to force you to like fat or chubby women. They are providing images for the MEN THAT DO LIKE THEM so they can be happy too.
STOP TRYING TO SPEAK FOR ALL MEN. Not every man is a nazi facist like you are. You are just one male not all of them. Not all men think the same and like the same thing. Not all men like blondes, not all men like Asians, not all men like a lot of muscle, not all men like chubby women, etc, etc. There are in fact some men who like chubby or fat women who have divorced/dumped them as soon as they lost weight.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 Did I ever say that I prefer women who are unhealthily skinny? No. There is a difference between that and a thin woman. And size is not always synonymous with either, especially since size can vary from designer to designer. My mother is regularly a size 0, yet she is not overweight nor is she unhealthily skinny.

Why are they the subject of so much ridicule? Because overweight women are jealous of them. Easy. It especially makes sense when you consider that the vast majority of that ridicule comes not from men but from other women, often fat ones I might add.

You never answered the question. Are you willfully dodging it? Until you answer it, you will have stated NOTHING about the reality of life.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@adrianalima0 Insulting me? Nice job showing how 'tolerant' you are. The men who do like them are few and far in between. They are the exception. And it is not about providing sexy images for those few men who do, but about trying to dictate what is and is not acceptable for the vast majority of men to find sexy. Otherwise they would make their own magazine specifically targeted toward fatties and those who prefer them. But instead they are trying to invade an outlet that is primarily consumed by regular men who do not.

[babylips14]

"Because overweight women are jealous of them."---Haha Like Nicki Minaj who by the way is not overweight at all and embraces her big assets.

"Did I ever say that I prefer women who are unhealthily skinny?"--Now you're changing your stance again because you just realized how foolish you looked saying that size 0 girls are better looking than size 8 girls LOL.

To answer your question, I would choose a guy who was 200 Ibs and 6'1 before I would choose any boney skinny guy to be on the cover of ANY Men's magazine cover. Leo DiCaprio is not "skinny". He is muscular/athletic.

[adrianalima0]

Your hypocrisy is disgusting. You insult women left and right and all of a sudden your a little bitch when you get it in return lol. No you are dead wrong. IT IS about providing those men and women with media. Plain and simple. Nobody has a gun to anyones head saying they have to accept them, they are there for those that already accept them since they are rarely represented in the media whatsoever. If you don't like it, simply turn the page or close the window.

[babylips14]

@adrianalima0 he is literally a hypocritical, whiny kid. All he has done in these posts are whine, fat-shame, and talk untrue shit about bigger girls. Yet, he doesn't want to be "shamed" for liking skinny girls. Like seriously? If he doesn't like bigger girls, that's his taste, but he doesn't have to shove his ignorant ideas down everyone's throats by telling us how bigger girls tend to be "meaner" and how worthless they are because (according to him) the male media likes twigs, which by the way, is not true at all. Porn, celebrities, and even pop culture have proven otherwise. He even said that Beyonce was "fat" which people in this question www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2054197-do-you-think-that-beyonce-is-fat
thought that whoever said that was just blind, and probably a troll for saying that. This kid is obviously is misinformed and deeply insecure. Poor child.

[Emberremembers]

I was going to make my own comment but you've already said it. Thank you

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 A size 0 absolutely does look better than a size 8. My mother is in fact a 0. And the vast majority of men would agree as well. You can quote one little statistic all you want, but it stands that UK sizing is different from the US and that there is an entire pornography, prostitution, and fashion industry which says otherwise.

In light of that, what is more likely? That everything else is wrong, or that a few men lied on a survey to avoid hurting the feelings of the women surveying them?

You're equivocating by assuming that skinny is by default unhealthy or anorexic. That is not true. But it is true for being fat. Hence the term 'overweight.' I never once promoted underweight, but skinny. You are guilty of the straw man fallacy.

Marisa Miller is skinny but not underweight. And Ashley Graham is no Marisa Miller.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 You're missing the point by the way. It does not matter that DeCaprio is muscular/athletic. The point stands that his figure is still not representative of the figures that the vast majority of the male population have.

Just as the figure of thin supermodels is not representative of the figure that the vast majority of the female population has.

Therefore if you believe it is wrong in the latter case, why would it be okay in the former case?

It isn't

Instead you are a HYPOCRITE.

You want men to lower their standards with women but you want women to still be able to hold men to ridiculously high standards like DiCaprio.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@babylips14 Again, who told you that? Your liberal 'women's studies' professor? I would bet money that I am smarter than you. I graduated high school as valedictorian and student of the year, and have a 4.0 GPA in college and devour books way past my reading level.

You are just parroting cultural Marxist rubbish that the media told you. "Fat shaming"? Bullshit. Fat is not attractive and that is that.

YOU are the ones trying to force your opinions down our throats. Men do not like fat women and the few who do are just that: the few. I know more about men than you do and the pornography industry bears witness to that.

Also, being thin does not equal being underweight. That is an equivocation, and a straw man of my position.

But hey, you need to be able to call women 'twigs.' Because it shows just how 'tolerant' you truly are. You only care about women if they are fat like yourself but otherwise you will shame and insult them.

Thin women are the best ;)

[broozhy]

@adrianalima0 Hahaha, that's telling.

[Laura_Marx]

this shit again

this post has been made like a million times on this website

the girls you posted r literally 'thin girl, thin girl with muscles, thin girl with a larger butt'

there's nothing wrong with the fat girls you posted either -______-

jerkoff

[BuchitaBuchys]

1. You're not for body positivity if you encourage body shaming of any kind.
2. This has been done too much.
3. Who cares what they call themselves?
4. The last example is fat to you, but sexy af to me. Fat can be sexy. It depends what the person likes. You may not, but others may. No shame in eithers game.

[broozhy]

That's a picture of you then?

[BuchitaBuchys]

@broozhy yep

[LaVilaine]

Sweet baby Jesus, just shut up about this bullshit already. We get it. You think that all fat people are worthless and a detriment to society. Blah blah blah. Go snort some more coke. Might make you more cheerful.

[adrianalima0]

lololol

[lyannamormont]

You are so right that people do not know the difference between fat and sexy/curvy and supporting this in the name of body empowerment. I also agree to not support this because I feel like I support being overweight for people who can afford not to be overweight. I dont know why people got offended this much. It must be that truth is harsh to admit

[AmazingAmanda123]

Forgive me, but you are HORRIBLE at writing these kinds of MyTakes. First you say "I'm all for body positivity" and then you shame these girls and women for being plus-sized! That does some serious contradicting! You call them "FAT" (feeling a need to put it in all caps) and, for what, just because you're fed up with being deceived when you look at a magazine with "Curvy Girls" in the title? Seriously, why do you care so much? Now, I'm on the curvy side myself (really close to what you define as an "athletic girl") and I honestly couldn't care less about what other women call their bodies. If a plus sized girl says she's "curvy", I wouldn't bat an eye. You shouldn't care this much unless your main goal was to body-shame in the first place!

[vishna]

What do you gain by pointing out how fat they are? All those women look super confident, no point in trying to shove your truth down someone else's throat-especially about their body :)
Like, we all have individual ideas of where skinny, athletic, curvy, over weight lie-but it's not my business to go around telling everyone what I think :)

[Mesonfielde]

Great, another montage of extremely skinny twig-like girls versus overweight women, completely abandoning the middle ground that actually looks balanced and right. -_-

[greg83]

Amen.

[madhatters4]

I second that Amen!!

[JensonStatement]

You got a third Amen

[broozhy]

The middle is what I'm talkin about!

[lumos]

Why did you feel the need to write this take? Lol just let people call themselves whatever they want.

[crazy_eyes]

I'm an alien.

[lumos]

@Slikmix @crazy_eyes good for y'all

[singlebee]

I am a man whore Lol

[Elisa13]

he wanted to start a popular thread to make himself gag popular

[Anonymous]

You know what I honestly think? Some guy that you loved/liked left you for a girl that is bigger and that's not a twig. She has boobs, ass, hips, thighs and has a shit load of confidence because she's happy on how she looks. Majority of MEN look for that. So that's what I think. But it's okay you're anonymous so you're not woman enough to really post this. 😂😂😂😂😂😉

[Opinion Owner]

Let the down votes begin !

[babylips14]

Asker has what psychologists call an "inferiority complex".

[Opinion Owner]

@babylips14 right lol

[adrianalima0]

Exactly XD lol

[the_rake]

"Now THIS IS FAT"

Seriously? That's what you call fat?

Because this is what I personally call fat:

1.bp.blogspot.com/.../...2BFlamingo%2B34K%2B07.jpg

each to their own.

[dimples123]

this woman is curvy but fat

[TheSpartan]

That woman looks exactly the same as the women above.

[dimples123]

I know the ones she listed are fat, but to a degree they have "curve" but not like 1st one

[the_rake]

@TheSpartan

You must be blind.

[TheSpartan]

Not at all, man. This chick might be 10 lbs heavier or so, but she's not significantly fatter.

[the_rake]

no she is, she's significantly fatter. only the first girl that op posted is actually overweight.

[SS-rated]

@TheSpartan is totally right i see no difference

[the_rake]

@SS-rated

love-handles, arms and thighs thicker than mine, and curves like godzilla.