This is a jump ahead, level 301 Men's Emotional Workout class so you can see where we need to build up to (for you guys still wounded by those prior fembot and life wounds.). This is designed to help you get back to your better emotional condition!
Disclaimer: Talk to your Dr., Lawyer, Minster, Therapist, Guru, and woman before doing any of these exercises! I'm not responsible for your life nor consequences arising.
I have to imagine Jesus, the Christ, and other such amazing people, didn't dress so well. Clothes that aren't clean, baths how often? Sand and grit and toothbrushes? Nope.. and people were drawn to Him! What was it about him that would do that?
The goal is to learn to project positive energy to other people such that they see your emotional energy and are drawn to it! Kinda like bugs to lightbulb, let's say.
Step 1: Meditate and focus on building your energy, self confidence, positiveness. Think about what you are grateful for. Do this for a week, 2x a day.
Step 2: Dress like a slob! Trash clothes with paint on them, not much matches, old shoes. Look somewhat kept, but not your best self.
Step 3: Go out and about and strike up positive conversations with people! The goal being to have good positive engagements. Check out clerks, waiters/waitresses, a bar. Don't corner anyone or stalk anyone, good grief! For example, go to an Indian buffet and talk to the waiter/waitress and strike up a good conversation! Have a nice meal and make it all positive...forget about what clothes you are wearing, focus on the energy you project, that it is giving, loving, concern and empathy for others. Oh God...this hurts doesn't it? It's not easy! Outwards focused not internal. If you feel fear or shame, accept the emotion and let it pass, speak truth into it that you have value beyond your clothes, reflect on positive images of yourself (you should have built by now in 101 and 201 which haven't been posted yet!).
If you are still projecting creepy sub-tones, get out of there man! Redo step 1. Your lawyer may be required if you don't.
Record the successes in your memory banks and in writing! If you get rejection, keep your energy up and be positive! That's the hard part. Try to spin it around to a positive and see people come around. If you get someone to turn to you, that is huge extra credit in your soul! You may get approved for level 401 class. And no, you don't just get into the class, you have to be approved by the board for outstanding achievements in human kind!
Maybe you think I'm making this up. I am, but I do this and I've had amazing results. Not saying I get numbers, I haven't asked yet. What matters is inside!
* No human beings should be harmed in these exercises...ever! These exercises are designed to give, not take. If you have mental issues causing you to want to hurt someone else, or control them, or cry in sadness, please get help from a professional. Those broken pieces inside of you can be fixed.
Let me know your results!