If you had weight problems and then overcame them, would you NOT want to be with someone who had weight problems and is still overcoming them?

[HappyTardigrade]

there's this guy I've seen around the gym, and he's in really good shape. i learned that he used to be pretty over weight (like obese over weight) as a kid, but now he's not. i was a pretty chunky kid too, and I'm still working off some weight but its not anything too unflattering, and i was wondering that if you overcame your weight like that would you for sure want to stay away from someone who is just a smidge overweight or would you be more willing to see past that as you wish someone did for you? obviously you can't answer for him, but I'm just wondering which side of the scale this leans on.

i would see past the weight, i was there once too.

no, sorry. i crawled tooth and nail out of that pit and don't want to be anywhere near it EVER AGAIN!

[Athleticbroo]

Used to be scrawny 130 pound kid in 8th grade but then

Highschool.

And I "overcame" it for reason, And now that I did. Why would I want a fat chick when I can em wayyy better? Lol

[rjroy3]

I wouldn't look at it as being with a girl "because I've been there". Either I like her or I don't.
Most times, if you're comfortable with who you are and how you look then he will too

[aleigh]

I will vote A. But I will encouraged him to eat healthy and exercise, we can do it together.

[carnix]

No, it would be hypocritical.

I am the same, I'd commend them not scorn them.