Is this some a disease that I have? Gender roles swapped in my mind?

[Anonymous]

So I am not sure what is going on. I'm definitely not gay, because I am only attracted to girls, and of course I fantasize only about them.
There's something though: I expect from girls what normally they would expect from me (initiate, THEY cuddle to me somehow, and start everything all the time etc.)

On the other hand, I am a lot more emotional than guys usually and talk a lot about how I feel. maybe I over-dramatize things.

Am I simply stupid or something is wrong about me psychologically? It would be good to know at least the name so that I can at least research it on google.

[dartmaul15]

Nope, not at all. Guys ARE like that, it's just that society and media seems to think it's better to present guys as slabs of meat with a cock and stunted emotions.
It is perfectly normal. You're simply a guy who dares to touch those emotions, instead of supressing them.
You don't fit the stereotype because the stereotype does not fit reality.

[Mesonfielde]

That's because there are misconceptions about how a specific sex has to display specific traits and has to do and want to do and be interested in specific things. There isn't really any point to expect any sex to do any specific thing just based on their sex.

[Anonymous]

Just like a lot of women don't fit their gender roles, their are men that don't fit our gender roles. There isn't anything psychologically wrong with you. You are an individual that just doesn't fit the gender role society tries to force on you.

[Chance1880]

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