This ones for the guys and girls?

[medical2523]

Who thinks I could get a really hot girl like a 9 or 10

yeah I could

fuck no

[Anonymous]

Not with all these questions on here to try and pump your spirit up. Girls that have the pick of the litter can easily afford to not worry about the dudes that aren't bringing their A game. That's just a common sense, fact of life. That's not to say they're horrible, shallow people. It's just the dynamic of things when you are everyone's desire and KNOW it.

Plus, it sounds cliche but you're aiming for a girl to be a trophy or conquest. Sure, you might be looking for just a one hitter quitter but again, the standards are pretty high for someone that sits at the top end of the spectrum. That's doubly true for one night stands and flings because they're purely physical by principal.

If you're looking for a long-term lady, then she has to have more depth than just being able to check off the 9 or 10 in looks from your list of requirements. Can you stand her behavior and attitude about things? Does a relationship work for both your life situations? Can you put your insecurities aside so you don't poison the relationship? Do you both want the same things? Can you even stand to be around her?

Having a 9 or 10 is nice... at first. I was young and dumb once, and just wanted that hot number around because she was very easy on the eye and my "instincts" were saying she was good. But if you have more than a pea-sized brain, it gets old when she's JUST a pretty face/body, believe me. Even now if I just wanted a casual friends with benefits thing, I can't spend time with someone that gets on my nerves or doesn't mesh with me. I've learned, and it can't be unlearned (thankfully).

So nope, I don't think you have what it takes. And the reasons above are why I think it's the case ;)

[dartmaul15]

Some might find you physically appealing, but generally speaking topless selfies make the "douchebag alarm" chime hard (and in my opinion it seems kinda narcistic).
I'm not sure if that's your intention, but remember that images also speak about personality, and selfies topless is a no no if you want girls that are nice. So you might want to adjust your personality a bit, okay?
Just a friendly tip :)

[MaskofInsanity]

Okay, here's how it is.

You're not a 9 or 10, so the only way you will get a girl who is a 9 or 10 is if she doesn't know it or really likes your personality.

[medical2523]

OK what am i cause I would love to know

[MaskofInsanity]

Eh I'm not a rater. Its too simplistic.

[linahh]

Obviously you don't have self-confidence at all, so no, you can't get a 9 or 10 for sure.

[medical2523]

I think I can I'm just asking if you think I can

[linahh]

If you really thought that you could, you'd never ask other people because your opinion would be enough. :))

[medical2523]

Well you know how hot girls tend to be stuck up

[chocolatedragon]

You could, but you're not Seal. Not hot German blondies for you :p
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[staciebee]

Well we don't know anything about you, aside from the fact that you have a dirty mirror.

[medical2523]

Lookwise though you could probably tell

[staciebee]

But there's so much more to it than that, especially for women.

[Invoker]

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and you get what you give.

So can't give you a yes or a no or any number because that's all superficial BS.

[QueenB1203]

What in your opinion is a girl who is a 9 or 10? It's different for everyone