Why are naturally thin people are more accepting then naturally bigger people? Why can't we just love people for who they are and not outside?

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Ok, so I've seen a lot of debate about big and thin people. We all keep making gerallizations that skinny count calories and bigger people are slobs. Why is it that when someone who is fat says that their metabolism is slow,  it is consider an excuse, and people bash the shit out of them but we don't complain when someone's metabolism is fast? I am a bigger girl that works out regualrly and my friend is like a size 4. She does nothing she sleepsall day and literally drink like 2, 2-liter pepsi a day or in two days. Her habits are horrible and she never works out but I hate that between the 2 of us, she would be considered more desireable than me because she is smaller. I've seen may people complain that bigger people have have heath issues along the road. Remember, I am bigger and work out and try to eat healthier while my friend eats whatever she wants and don't gain much weight. Who is gonna have a better lifesytle in 10 years? Why do we like to bash people so much?

Humping_Tornadoes · Accepted Answer

Because fat people blame their weight on genetics and metabolism issues when being overweight is due to two things only:

1- Not eating appropriately.
2- Lack of exercise.

The real issue is that when people want to try to lose their weight, it is already too late for them. You can't expect to lose weight in a way a 20 year old can, when you're 30+ years old being overweight most of your life. It is a fact that anyone can change their metabolism while changing their habits, but the earlier you take care of it, the better. And even still, it is a process that takes lots of dedication and discipline. Not everyone is up for that.

Do some people have faster metabolisms? Yes they naturally have, which will decrease when they are older if they don't ever begin to exercise. What you should focus is in your own metabolism, your own eating habits, and the amount of exercise you need. You're still young and in time to care of it. No excuses.

genuinlysensitive · Accepted Answer

Your friend will gain the weight. She is young, with a fast metabolism, and no stress in her life. Stress is an underated factor in wieght gain and loss, the more stress from outside sources the more weight you put on the harder it is to take it off.

What is your diet like?

Coffinspire · Accepted Answer

I always have the opposite problem... I'm your skinny friend that lounges and eats constantly, but I have friends bigger than me and if any conversation of weight comes up, I have to shut my mouth because I was "gifted" to be skinny. As you've stated, we can't control what we were born with.

tomboy41 · Accepted Answer

Nothing natural about fatties.

Dtegesd123 · Answer

I dislike when skinny guys always say they can't gain weight. I don't care how fast your metabolism is. I don't think you will burn calories even 1.5 times as fast as a normal metabolism person while resting. They honestly just have to eat more. say you are like my friend, he is 5'11 and weighs 140lbs. He says he eats a lot, but every time we eat together he eats only one bowl of rice and some dishes. While me at 6'2 180lbs I eat 2 bowls of rice and twice as much dishes.

ur friend probably doesn't eat much other than drinking the pepsi. I know I lost 30 lbs on a vodka redbull diet lol.

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