Anonymous(25-29)+1 yEverything you do and everything you have ever done in your entire life was wrong in somebody's opinion. Out of the billions of people on earth you will never be the best looking, smartest, richest (and dont argue with me on this one. If you aren't born a billionaire you are not going to beat the biggest billionaire since birth at being a billionaire even if you DO manage Oprah status one day). You will never be fit enough, or thick enough, or skinny enough. Your decisions will never be good enough for everybody or anybody at that. Someone will always not like your personality. Someone will always not like your hair and clothes. Someone will always find you inadecuite... How many people actually stopped to see that i mispelled inadequate just so they could nitpick at what kind of education i have? How many people are going to find something bad to say about this question and every other question you find on GAG and on the news and in the schools?
You see, you will NEVER be perfect. So all i can say is, love the things you are. Good or bad to the world, at the end of the day this is your life and your body. God could only spare one life per soul and the time limit is scarce. Enjoy it while it lasts and realize that its okay that you are never going to be perfect- and you hear this all the time so quit ignoring it and start embracing it- you are unique and individual and i want you to know that no matter what that boy or girl or your mom or dad or colleagues say to you, you were born important and therefore, presented the gift of life. Love it more than anything else because it means MORE than ANYTHING in the WORLD11 Reply
Asker+1 yThanks but I don't believe in god
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I'm sure there's things you like about your self, but to answer your question I do love my self.
Maybe if you would have asked me a few years ago I probably wouldn't have a clear answer. But after realizing that no one will ever be happy for whatever their reason is I started using the "Fuck it" mentality which has given me the confidence that I have today. I love my sense of humor even though it might not be everyone's cup of tea but shit it's what makes me me! I've have body image issues basically all my life and it had been cause by what media would put into our heads of what the ideal body looked like, I was my own worst critic. But after I reached a point in my life where I had friends who wouldn't let my image affect the way they treated me I realized that if I show my true self and walk and talk with confidence others would see me the same way as my friends would. So on days where I'm not feeling so great I just remind my self to DO ME cause no one else can... do YOU, be YOU and learn to love your self cause that's the one thing you can't expect anyone else to do for you! Yes you have family friends maybe even a significant other that love you but until you can love your self and accept your flaws you probably won't ever be able to truly feel loved by them
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Everyone has things that they don't necessarily like about them selfs but that isn't a reason to completely hate ones self. Change what you don't like about your self and get rid of any negative shit that is in our life.10 Reply
+1 yI love myself enough to not let anyone take advantage of me or disrespect me.
It's important to" love yourself". Loving yourself means you know your own worth, so you won't tolerate being treated badly by anyone. I'm a kind caring person , but I won't allow anyone to manipulate me or take advantage of my kindess.11 Reply- +1 y
Thank you for the MHO :)
Oh, I love myself so much!
1) We've been together for 23 years, we never fought and never broke up... ever!
2) We can't live without one another.
3) We'll be together till the day we die.
4) We do literally everything together!
5) We love the exact same things and hate the exact same things.
6) We share passion for the same topics.
7) Need I continue? Probably not... LOL.
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823 opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. I am quite content with this superior vessel of mine.
So tell me, why would you be hateful towards yourself
when self-love is the most natural human instinct?11 Reply
Asker+1 yI disappoint myself and I used to be a complete jackass when I was little
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+1 yDepends on the day really. But do I love myself as a person in general, yes. But some days might be rough and I might complain or have an attitude, those are days I am not at my best, but in the end of it all I forgive myself, I am allowed to have a bad day once In awhile.
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Asker+1 yI really wish my attitude was similar to yours, it's the exact opposite
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No one here asked the question I think. Why do you hate yourself? The fact you are reaching out to us here is telling me you want to be able to change/try.
Asker+1 yIndeed I do but I've failed myself so many times
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You're still young, you got plenty of time to turn things around. Did you do something bad to make yourself hate yourself? I can't help you if I don't have an idea. You can always send me a private message if you prefer.
Asker+1 yI always struggled greatly in school until last year and I did so many stupid things
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Thats no reason to hate yourself. I struggled in school too. And i did things in the past that i am not too proud of. You gotta learn from it and know things will get better because they do. I promise you they do.
I was in a bad place about two years ago i think. I didn't know it then but things turned around for me. It all works out for the best in the end. You just have to try to remain positive.
+1 yI don't love myself, but I don't have hate myself. I used to, but now I have so some good people in my life
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Asker+1 yYou again? How are you doing with your self harm issues?
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Me again? Do I know you?
Oh I'm doing good, I've stopped self harming
Thanks for asking
+1 yYes, I do ☺🌸 I have no reason not to love myself 😀💕 Hating yourself is a waste of time if you ask me 😕
10 ReplyI've learned that I'm never going to be anyone else but me and I'm pretty much stuck in this body so I have to love myself.
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+1 yI do, yes.
I worked very hard to be what I am now, so I'm glad to say it's not a false sense of confidence.10 Reply
+1 y"Love yourself first" so yea i course i love and like me😏
10 Replyyou're just under 18 lol. as i get older i fall more and more in love with myself
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYes, I love myself and I keep learning to love myself as time goes on.
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+1 yI wouldn't say I entirely love myself but rather I respect myself.
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+1 yNot really, I always feel like I dont look right. My friends have even said to me that I look awkward and out of place in everything I do. I have never really liked my personality either. I kinda know how you feel.
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Asker+1 yThey're probably jealous
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oh trust me they're not :o My terrible internet browsing posture and my unsociable self makes sure that no one will be jealous of me XD
I don't know if I do, but there is stuff I like and hate about my self.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yYes I love myself but I still know that I need to constantly improve
10 Replyno. I've overdosed on pills, and they took me to the ER.. and guess what im still alive (:
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Asker+1 yWhy don't you love yourself?
Asker+1 yI totally feel you, I've been treated that way all my life but once you're out of school looks won't matter anymore, it'll be personality and ability that counts, I'm pretty ugly and I've never had a girlfriend and been rejected twice. I hate me but I know I can only get better, same for you, you will only become better
+1 yI mean, I do *want* to... but no, I really don't like myself at all.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNah, I hate my mind so much... I despise my existence...
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Asker+1 yWhy?
Opinion Owner+1 yBecause I'm not white...
Asker+1 yWho cares what your skin color is?
Asker+1 yThere is no difference
Opinion Owner+1 ySkin color is shows true handsomeness, while dark skin and wild hair doesn't...
Had I went un-anonymous I'll only be followed by my kind.
I wouldn't lie to myself and say I'm handsome like the rest do. I'll be honest and say that I'm ugly as hell. But that's not the only reason why I dislike my self. I dislike the pitch they put on my race and pile me with the rest. As though we are clones.
Asker+1 yWhoever was spitting racial slurs at you **** them. They're jealous of you and your allowing them to win, your upset, you hate yourself so they win. Take a better look in the mirror, learn to like what you see. It wasn't easy for me either
Meh.. i am me. I dont think about meyself too much in that sense.
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+1 yYes of course. I think I'm awesome.
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+1 yI am perfectly content with who I am. I love me.
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+1 yYes, but I don't always like myself.
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+1 yOf course. If I don't, nobody else will.
20 Reply yes. at least most of the time
10 ReplyOf course Justin even made a song about it
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+1 yMeh. I feel like I suck at everything really.
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Asker+1 yWhy?
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Don't know just when I do something I always see someone do it better. Which is fine! But I just wish I was really good at at least one thing!
Asker+1 yPractice, stop comparing yourself to others. I felt the same way not to long ago
+1 ygetting there.
10 Reply590 opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. Yes I love myself!
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10 ReplyYes, I love myself.
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10 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic. Sometimes!
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+1 yEverynight
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+1 yYeah I do...
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+1 ySort of
10 Replynope, not at all...
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Asker+1 yWhy not bro?
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I have the same question to be honest, I don't mean to be tacky or anything and I do understand that it's not my business how you rate/love/value/etc yourself but, I always see you posting negative answers like this one to similar questions and then get a bunch of girls telling you how cute you are and such. So, I'm curious why the girls' opinions about you are not enough of a validation to you.
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@DBAOracle because they are based on cherry picked pictures and I'm online much different than I real life. My body isn't good looking and I have back problems because I'm very tall, I have social anxiety and I'm super shy irl. I also am super lazy and can't get over it and my mind is fucked up in many ways. An that's just the tip of the iceberg. I put a nice picture up and I try to be nice and funny here why some people like me, but it's just a small part of what I actually am.
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+1 yNope not really
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Asker+1 yWhy not?
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I've got clinical depression, Even on days like today where I'm happy I don't love myself
Asker+1 yI feel you, I was in a depression for nearly two years but I've almost escaped it. Just keep your head up
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I'm good
I'm mostly better and fifty percent of the time plus I'm happy but i don't think I'll ever love myself.
Funny story though one of the rules of the school I went to was to 'respect myself and others' I said to my psychologist (jokingly) I couldn't obey this rule because, "I couldn't respect myself because I know that I'm a sneaky bastard"
He got the joke and we both laughed
Asker+1 yThings will get better, I'm assuming you're almost or already finished with school, you'll be free at last to do what you want, and best part you can say "**** you school" and start your better life
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Dude I'm fine now
Not at all
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Asker+1 yWhy not?
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yHate everything about myself haha
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