I need help on how im going to get fit please help?

[gabemichales]

my dad is a really bad role model he's hit my mum hits my siblings and he gets angry at my mum for going to university p. s he is the reason my mum has no friends he tells her to not have any friends, or he gets really angry at my mum for something he's done he treats everyone else than he does with my mum and siblings and he wants me to do sprot and i want to do sport but this is with his running friends and some of those friends perv on my sisters one has actually felt my sisters so running with him isn't an option and i want to go to the gym with some people at work but they are really busy and i dont want to go by myself because im going to be really nervous about talking to anyone and everyone so i need someone to go with and i need a parent or guardian

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this is what i sent to a councellor but they haven't written back. my family has had an eventful year last year including my family not accepting my sisters choices because she loves a girl that apparently cheated on her and they think this is wrong but my sister loves her because they get along really well, my other sister having a baby and then the husband not being supportive at all

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my brother has a horrible attitude to everything (everything being washing the dishes, feeding the dog, not supporting my mum at all especially because she’s attending university this year ect), my dad nearly went to jail on my birthday because he was being really mean and unreasonably violent to my mum, sisters and my brother and now my third sister is pregnant and could have or get has diabetes and i think this year will be no different to last year. please help me

[Anonymous]

You can go to the gym and ask one of the people who work there to show you how to use the machines. Maybe you can go running with someome from school? About the guy who felt up your sister, was she okay with that? If yes, you should be okay with running with him. If no, she has been harrassed and that's illegal.

Im sorry to hear about your parents. No kid should go through that and when I hear this I wonder why your mom hasn't left long ago. You can tell her she can show some spine and disobey him, she's not your dad's fucking slave.
Also, she can go to the police about the hitting because it's illegal. You can go to the police about the hitting, you can explain to them if you don't want to prosecute your dad but do want him to stop, maybe they can give him a warning, even without saying it came from you.

[gabemichales]

i have he nearly got sent to gaol on my birthday

[gabemichales]

my sister didn't like it and she didn't want to make a fuss about it so we decided to leave it

[gabemichales]

i will put the email i sent to the councellor

[gabemichales]

oh yeah and my dad bacsically gets angry at my mum for having fun and also she's seriously considering leaving him but she says he will take all the money and the house

[Anonymous]

Go with your friends to the gym you don't need your parents in the gym. Just don't listen to anyone if they offer steroid to you or any kind of fat loss products or anything that build muscle unless it's food or exercises

[Decentguy]

your father is very abusive, why dont you call child protection services?

[gabemichales]

i have he nearly got sent to gaol on my birthday

[gabemichales]

and im getting email councelling

[Decentguy]

then contact them again and tell them that your dad is abusive again and again.

[gabemichales]

oh i got an email from them just then but they didn't give me any advice they just ask questions and i can't call cause my dad monitors my whole entire family's phones calls and everything if he sees i called the kids helpline he will get angry at my mum and blame everything on her and he will also make my life hell for making him look bad and causing more drama cause my brother went to councelling and my dad found out and my dad whooped his ass

[Decentguy]

you seriously need to tell all this to child protection services. can't you take any help from police?