I made a woman mad at the gym just now because I told her how much I weigh. Is she psycho or was I wrong?

[Elarra]

No lie. I was talking to her and she was really nice at first. We were on the elliptical and talking about our weight loss. She asked me how much I weigh and my waist size. She told me she was 155 and waist 33 (lady is like 30 or something). I told her I was 165, 5'3 and 31.75 waist. The lady was taller than me by about an inch or two.

She said she's never looked like that ever. Then she said girls like me get in her nerves bragging about their weight and manage to still be a good size.

Last I checked, 165 pounds is not something to brag about. And I don't think 32 inch waist is cute. It's just well hidden because I have a DD cup and wear a size 10 jeans. But my waist is not small.

She didn't want to hear it and said that's why overweight people don't want to go to the gym. Then she went to locker room.

Like... the fuck? Is she psycho or did I actually say something wrong?

[cross98]

lol i wouldn't try to figure that bipolar shit out. there's always people who claim to want a convo then turn it into a fight. she was probably jealous, had a flashback due to what u guys were saying and it got to her emotionally. kinda like when people say, " not all guys and dads are bad parents..." and i snap and probably say some men stuff and my father and guys overall. at some point i do mean what i say though.

[cross98]

say some mean stuff about my father and guys overall*

[ekc8295]

She's dumb. There's a million different body types. Two people can be the exact same height and weight and carry it differently. That's basic common sense. She was just being super insecure about her body. That's her issue, not yours. She brought up the topic, so naturally you assumed it was ok to mention your info as well.

[TripleAce]

Tone is everything, not so much what you say. Maybe it 'sounded' condescending. Bope

But either way she obviously had her short and curlies tugged on by what you said. Maybe she doesn't get enough of the D. It happens

[PiuBravoRagazzo]

People are crazy, dont think too much about it. Especially in gyms, people have this attitude that they know better than everyone else, because they read something online.

[Kit_Kat88]

Insecurity can cause unnecessary outburst of anger. Even though you weigh more, you carry fat differently, creating a slimmer image. She was frustrated at herself and took it out on you. You were being honest and not rude at all, so its all on her.

[CHARismatic110]

Yeah she probably was already on edge and that sent her over. People don't realize that everyone wears their weight differently. Someone else here mentioned tone, which does come into play, but I don't think that this was the case here.

[milopiano]

No. Some people can't accept people comparing themselves, and they are bothered by it. It was probably just a butthurt soccer mom. I would not worry about it too much.

[Izumiblu]

She's psycho bd hs aself image problem. She automticlly assumed that your comments were said in judgment even though you were just being open.

[Decentguy]

i think she was just very frustrated a lot because of her weight, so she burst out in anger. but im sure she didn't intentionally did that.
by the way its not your fault at all

[tattooedhandfet]

You didn't say anything wrong in my opinion. Perhaps she's just sensitive about her weight. Most likely her belly.

[Luci92]

Sounds insecure, I don't think it actually has anything to do with you.

[Imafreespirit]

Wtf? Some people can be extremely sensitive.. Jeez

[mutedaisy]

She was immensely insecure about herself. Don't take it to heart, she was just projecting on to you.

[SarahsSummer]

I can't even imagine what she heard that bothered her so.

[ananyagupta]

i am just wondering what if i told her my waist size she would probably eat me

[Jamesol1]

165 pounds is like averageish for a dude. Yeah these insecure women get triggered easily... keep doing you... I sure as hell say what i want.

[LastNightmare]

never say something about women's body.. it's not good.. if you're not know then personally, don't say.. it always mess up things

[Hollywood-Glam]

I think she has anger issues or some sort of complex/insecurity.

[Anonymous]

I think she is too fed up with comments from other people and took it out on you. But you didn't say anything wrong

[Anonymous]

Yeah you clearly did something wrong the moment you decided to talk to the lady...

[Anonymous]

So wait--what exactly was she upset about? Was she just jealous of your DDs?

[COCOCHANEL]

she's a bit too sensitive

[Anonymous]

Some girls a re very sensitive about their weight, so that may have provoked her

[VesatileMarie]

she's just insecure, lol this wasn't your fault