How would you react on learning that a slightly overweight yet good looking boy secretly admires you?

[shyindian]

I am really confused because I am secretly crushing on a girl who is in my class.Although we haven't talked at all so far.I am a very shy person , not an introvert or coward but just shy. I am 6'2 inches tall and considerably fair.I take time to mingle up with people.When around beautiful girls ,I feel very shy in talking to them. I feel free in talking to just one girl in my class , she is bubbly and kind.But I feel shy in talking to her about my secret crush on a friend of hers.I know that I am a bit overweight but I dress really well and look good in that. My looks are a mix of a baby's innocence and a man's manliness. So I look good. Girls in my class respect me a lot because of my persona.But I feel this hinders them from approaching me.Although I've seen some girls from an angle of my eye noticing me.I don't follow trends and dress whatever suits me.So I have a very different sense of clothing and my hair style is simple side partition type.I tried to add my crush on Facebook as a friend.but she for some reason didn't add me..maybe because I am not familiar...I think she now has understood that I am crushing on her...I have genuine feelings for her and no superficial thoughts..at all...She is so adorable and the way she moves around with such grace...Please help.

[dontaskwhy]

Id find it cute

it sounded weird because when I was reading this I was thinking of the guy I'm crushing on...he sounds like you.

Hes around your height, chubby and has the cutest "baby innocence" that I have ever seen...unfortunatly I don't think he's really intrested even though we sometimes glance at each other ):

If I found out a guy like that admired me id feel flattered and possibly pay more attention to him.

[shyindian]

Thanks for this advice....at least now I feel that girls would like to mingle with a guy like me.

[subarugirl85]

I think it's cute and you should try to break out of your comfort zone a little and try to talk to her. Why not tell your friend in the class and then she can strike up a convo with her and act like the buffer?

[shyindian]

Oh that's a good idea but I am really shy in talking to the opposite sex.

[shyindian]

Thanks , but I am shy in talking to the opposite sex about all this...and when beautiful girls are around I for some reason can't make eye contact with them....

[subarugirl85]

But if you are already comfortable with this other girl, why not get her take on things? I know how it is to be quiet and sometimes shy and how hard it is to break out of that, but speaking from experience it's always worth a shot. Good Luck!

[shyindian]

Thanks girl , you've ignited my spark.............

[subarugirl85]

No problem! It makes me happy to help,

[shyindian]

And this is what I like about girls , that they are such cute creatures on earth...but I want them to stay feminine...not tomboyish. I am in a terrible state of mind right now every time I am listening to a song I start going to fathoms of the song and think about my crush...she is very cute and helpful to all.I want to be with her and I am desperate....really very desperate.............I visualize myself in songs with her.