How can I make him see I'm not just one of the guys?

[Tnola]

I've always been a tomboy its the way I was raised. But I'm really interested in this guy. I've tried wearing daisy dukes and tight tight shirt, I've even went skinny dipping whit him but its like he doesn't notice me...So what I'm asking is how can I show him I'm interested in him and want to have a little fun with out him thinking I'm one of the guys?

[Cartiphilus]

You're a very pretty girl but if you swam with him in the nude and he didn't make a move on you, imho, he's either gay, just not interested in you, too insecure with himself to think he could have you for a girlfriend or you intimidate him being able to shoot and possibly every thing else you do that may be more than he can do. Truly, being in a pool with a naked girl as hot as you with that splendid tat on your back would have been too much for me, at that age, to not make a move on you.

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[Tnola]

Well thank you for the complement and help, um I dnt think he gay but I'm not shur but I won't ask him id be to embarassed. I dnt want him to feel intimidated by me that's the last thing I want to do. what can I do to make him more comfertable around me?

thank you agen

[Cartiphilus]

How old is he? Ask him to a Matinee. Get back into your daisy dukes, https://mikeinscho.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/203848044.jpg , like in this pic. Arrive early, take him by the hand and walk around the sites of the mall. Guys do like holding hands. Be very physical and keep one hand on him at all times. Try Grace perfume. Try always rubbing against him and while he's talking move in and french kiss him. THAT would certainly get most guys attention.

[Tnola]

Mhmm OK I can do that's he's 19 a few months older then me

[Cartiphilus]

Maybe he's a virgin and just scared sh*tless of being with a girl.

[Tnola]

Hmm I never thought bout that

[dan_i_am]

So, I looked at your photos and your are a very attractive woman.

And he went skinny dipping with you and didn't notice...

Then he either doesn't think of you in "that way" or,

He doesn't think that YOU think of HIM in that way.

So, I'd suggest that you tell him how you feel about him.

To be candid, guys do need to be hit over the head sometimes - they don't get subtlety. But in another life, if I were skinny dipping with you, I couldn't help but "point." ; )

Dan

[Tnola]

Thank you for the complement.....and for the help

[Cartiphilus]

I must completely agree with him about, "...if I were skinny dipping with you...", I, for one, would have a VERY strong 'point'. It would be a 'moral imperitive' for you to do something about such a 'point'.

[dan_i_am]

Cartiphilus: Indeed, I think you "enhanced" my answer and not only made some strong points in your answer, but you made them "firmly."

However, I don't think it should go without being said that it is not polite to point, and so you are spot on - the girl would be morally obliged to do something about it. : )

[dan_i_am]

Tnola,

On a separate note, good to see you using ear protection.

Do think about eye protection, too. Here, this link may help.

https://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/HowTo%3ABe_safe_with_guns

[ballingirl265]

just have it b you and him hangin out and you can try to make a move on him if you want to or just talk to him and tell him how you feel. but he may not like you how you like him so you should just talk to him to see wats up but don't b lik do you lik me because he may not and it might make the friendship a little awkward so to say b forward but not to forward about how you feel for him. I hope this is not confusing about what I'm tryin to say lol

[Tnola]

No I understand thanx.

[ciera6859]

Either he thinks of you as a friend or he's just not getting it. Here's what you should do, ask him. Simply say, "Do you think of me as just a friend or more than a friend?"

[dan_i_am]

Good point!

[Anonymous]

if there´s the sligthest possibility that he´s interested in you and you´ve treid all this to get his attention you should just try being more foreward about what you expect from this relationship.

You could suggest an activity that makes it pretty clear that you want more from him than being best buds - ask him on a date

[Tnola]

I have tried but he just kinda smiles at me and brushes it off like I'm not really serious....

[Opinion Owner]

But if you say you wore daisy dukes you must ? be physically attractive, that?s always a plus.

and if he hangs out with you it means he likes you so you just have to try to go from there and if nothing will develop with time you just have to go all or nothing - if he?s worth it

[Longshot]

Time for heavy flirting and then tell him you're arranging a great date. Tell him you want it to be a real date.

[Tnola]

Hmm OK and if he agrees to it what kind of date should I take him on? I dnt want to intimidate him.

[Longshot]

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