Why would he say I'm not his type anymore?

[ktown-loser]

Ok, so I met this guy on Myspace about 9 months ago. We both thought each other was awesome, and then we found out that we lived about a mile apart. So We finally met, and we had a great time. So we kept hanging out after that, and then it became more. I started to love him, and he was the best boyfriend I had ever had. Well, a little bit ago, he started treating me like crap, because he says I'm not his type anymore. I don't know what I did wrong, and now we just don't talk anymore. I miss him so much and I don't know what to do about it. He is so perfect for me. Help?

[badgrl]

Oh Sweetheart, I am so sorry you are having a bad day. You know that is what this is called? There will be better ones. It sucks when relationships don't go as planned and even more so when the person you care for changed their mind about you. Did you have fun? Did you do something unexpected and adventurous? Did you laugh and feel loved? That is what is important.

I am sorry this had to happen to you. But know he will call and he will feel stupid for breaking up with you and even more stupid when he sees you with another guy!

Try to be strong. Don't let him see you sweat.

My only advice is for you to move forward. Hurt for a minute and shake it off. Keep bringing the sexy and keep dating, get back out there!

Remember dating is practice and reinforces how you want to be treated and this, this is not how you want to be treated. I have a feeling you will have a new boyfriend soon. Drop me a line when you do!

Good luck to you!

[r3al-sag1ttar1us]

He probably wasn't ready for a serious relationship. Or it is also possible he did lose interest, but that doesn't mean you did anything wrong. He's a jerk who doesn't care about you because if he did he wouldn't have treated you like crap. Don't waste your time on a loser like him I'm sure there are better guys out there for you who won't treat you like crap & are waiting for you to notice them. Good luck.

[korabora]

Don't date guys online unless its from a real dating site I know you feel like shit but you are are under 18 you have time. In your 20s date more than 1 guy/ don't let let them know

[motorboater]

Well, you're the same type as you used to be. So don't believe what he says.

Now, maybe you were NEVER his type and it took him that long to figure it out. If so, its time to move on. You're NOT perfect for him so you're not a good couple. It takes two after all.

Or, maybe you're the right type, but he's not ready for a serious relationship. So that's his excuse. In this case, its time to move on. But you might want to keep him in your contacts list because, who knows, someday maybe he'll be ready. I mean, not being ready at age 16 doesn't mean you can NEVER be with that guy again. But definitely take a break and don't count on it.

Or, maybe you're the right type, but he's interested in someone else. In this case, he's just maybe trying to end it without telling you the real deal because that would make him look/feel guilty. In this case, move on.

[Stanley]

Why is he perfect for you? I think this is a good opportunity to think about what it is you want in a guy and check to see if that will lead to a good relationship or not.

[Snurklebaloompa]

People change. Judging from what you've said it's more than likely him that's changed. I guess, it's like having the same thing for dinner over and over, you get bored of having it, but then you change to something else and it's much more exciting. I know that implies he cheated on you, but it's possible I'm afraid, he may have found someone else or as r3al-sag1ttar1us said, is not ready for a serious relationship.

[kingbrother]

He isn't so perfect for you if he doesn't feel you two are compatible, find out why he says that, and if you don't like the answer move on.