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How did people treat you after you lost weight?

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  • Randomawkwardness
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    Yoda Age: 24 , mho 54%
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    Okay, in middle school I was kinda heavy but not obese or anything. I mean I had tummy rolls but I was comfortable with my body. This year is my 10th grade year and one of my friends brought up a picture from when i was in 7th grade and was like "Oh you were so fat then and now you're actually skinny" and it hurt because I had never noticed any weight loss and I had always thought of myself as looking pretty consistent. And now I realize that then, I never got a second look from a guy (let alone a first lol) and now I have them practically jumping up and down to mess around. It's sad that it wasn't like that before just because I was a little heavier and is only now that I fit into what they think is hot.

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  • seekingadvice90
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    Xper 6 Age: 36 , mho 66%
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    They treated me better and I got a lot more sexual offers. Family just supported me and remarked I was looking good and encouraged me to keep at it. Friends did, too, and started treating me more like a girly girl even though I didn't change and still didn't want to go dress up and stuff

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  • pingiluv
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    Family didn’t like me thin, men became too clingy and stalkerish. And stare too much. Women I didn’t pay too much attention

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  • Dchrls78104
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    Master Age: 48
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    The answer depends on several factors, one of them being your previous weight. Jennifer Hudson lost a lot of weight and was treated well. Her new weight is considered healthy. What was Eugenia Cooney's previous weight? Right now she weighs about 84 pounds and this weight is considered unhealthy. People are actually concerned that she is anorexic.

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  • Anonymous
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    No serious difference, but some of my more remote acquaintances were surprised by how much my face had changed, from its former rounded form back to its normal shape.

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  • Caaarl
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    Yoda Age: 34
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    Not me personally but people treat you way better after you lose as sigificant amount of weight. You'll get a lot more attention from the opposite sex and ever one you'll notice you get treated better overall from a lot of people.

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  • Dreamweaver671
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    Xper 7 Age: 40 , mho 31%
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    Friends all the sudden became interested in sex. Men became a little stand offish even threatened. I was invited to more events they know I reject.

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  • Lavenderella
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    More matches in social dating apps. Family/friends compliment but said that I look unhealthily thin so I ate more & lift weights.

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  • Fred0
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    They all had the sparkly eyes and then talk shit, i reciprocate back and thats how it usually goes. With family its always the "do you have a girlfriend" type of response.

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  • Sealander_Authority
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    At first they wouldn't notice but as time passes and you are still losing weight, they might just notice it and perhaps comment about how you lost weight.

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  • Isaiahgeek
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    Xper 4 Age: 23
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    I stretched a lot between 5th and 6th grade so people said I slimmed down a lot even my dad calls me salamander and my family keeps saying damn your taller than all of us. So yeah I'm both embarrassed and proud of it.

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  • dawnm902
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    It wasn’t so much the weight loss that did it but how I projected myself. When I’m healthy and fit it feel sexy. It shows well on me.

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    • Dreamweaver671
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      Well said

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  • Malita55
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    Guys who used to bully me started to hit on me lol, losers

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    • cryasf
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      Haha, I can’t wait until my body is looking good too

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  • GoodGuyBreakingBad
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    People treated me about the same as they did before.

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  • Ripper_E
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    I was really chubby once, and girls started flirting with me once I got a muscular body.

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  • Leo3572
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    Xper 6 Age: 27
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    They were afraid cause they knew it was something wrong. I've lost more than 11lbs (no water weight!) in just a very short time. Didn't eat anything.

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  • Anonymous
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    I hope people will treat me better when I lose some more.
    Now I'm the lazy fat girl and I'm sick and tired of it.

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    • Demonica
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      Same

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  • winterfox10
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    Master Age: 33
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    Everyone treated me a lot better. They realized that I wasn't just some asshole.

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  • Daphne93
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    Xper 5 Age: 32
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    Not sure but there treated better when I came out most were good that when I found out who my real friends.

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  • ikarus100
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    Xper 5 Age: 41
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    They knew i was fit, but some kept telling me im to skinny

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  • nutboi17
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    Xper 4 Age: 24
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    It's always a good thing when you try to make yourself better and it's always positive as long as it's done the right way

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  • Tohhru
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    I'm still fat so at this moment I'm pretty much invisible

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  • beebella
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    423 opinions shared on Health & Fitness topic.

    My family thinks I'm getting too skinny.

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  • scubaren
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    Xper 4 Age: 50
    +1 y

    The opposite of been overwieght...

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  • shep0612
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    Xper 5 Age: 46
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    Same as always like shit

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  • Anonymous
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    Haven’t lost any weight yet, still fat

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  • Just_Me89
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    Treated me the same.

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  • JustinTheBFP
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    Talk more shit

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  • AllGirlsAreBeautiful
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    jealous. haha

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  • Anonymous
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    They jump for joy!!!

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