Is it weird that I wouldn't mind spending my life with this girl if we aren't even together yet?

[KainHighwind]

When I met her, she was just a friend but we got really close and after that, I don't think I'd mind if she was my last one if we get together

She means more to me than anyone else in the world does. I care about her more than I do for anyone. She's made me happier than anyone else has and just like... Hearing her voice on a bad day was enough to cheer me up. I'd do anything to make sure she's happy and well... She'd be my number one and I love her. I've dated a lot of girls and I've had a lot of crushes but she's the only one I can safely say that.

If we ever get together, which I think we will, I'm hoping that she'd be the person I could live the rest of my life with. Is that weird since we haven't even been together?

[Brando]

Sounds like you are infatuated with her, so thinking like this might not be the best for you. You should allow yourself to see all of her, rather than all the things that you think are positives. This is because if you all were together, the negatives certainly come into play just as much as the positives. Seeing the whole person is what helps you decide if she is someone you really care for, despite the negatives.

[KainHighwind]

I have but they're really not that big of a problem. I could manage

[JohnGPL]

Sounds like you're infatuated. It's not "weird", in that it happens to people all the time, but it's also not super good for your long-term emotional health.

[KainHighwind]

That's the thing.. I know what infatuation is and I've been through that before. This is different though... I mean, I just don't think she's cute or something. We just got along so well, never disagreed on anything, and we just seemed perfect

[JohnGPL]

Well, there are varying degrees of infatuation. Getting along well is great, but from a rational standpoint there's no way you could have a romantic relationship without ever disagreeing with her. It's very easy to have feelings for somebody you've never had a disagreement with. But the strength of a relationship is measured by how well it weathers the hard things, not by how long the easy times last.

[KainHighwind]

yeah, I get what you're saying

I mean, if we ever had an artument or something, I'm sure it wouldn't be a problem