Why are people suddenly friendlier to a person after their weight loss?

[Kdude010]

It is a problem and it tells more about them. Why are you talking to me now when I was invisible to you before my weightloss journey? Please drop the act.

Why are people friendlier to a person after weight loss?

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Real people are those that are with you before your weight loss journey. They don't appear after your weight loss journey putting on a fake act and trying to be "friendly".

[Anonymous]

Our society is fucked up
I was actually rejected from a guy I used to like before because I was overweight back than. He didn't say exactly because your fat but I knew it. I went through a lot death of my parent jobless after it and depressed. I was eating eating I became fat. Now I'm "skinny" and it's different I can smell the difference. But good thing I made friends while I was fat I always stay close with them. And for some reasons I like guys who I see struggling with their weight I want to be with them in their journey. The guy in dating now I met him at the gym he is overweight and we work out together. I understand him... he understands me no bullshit things like look at this chick she is lean and crap who cares

[btbc92]

I was never fat, but the moment I dress up because I feel like it. All of a sudden the same guys trying to get my attention. GOODBYE LOSERS! Is what I say. They are fake people, and they still don't change. Just ignore them. Back in the day, if you was remotely thin you were not attractive. You were better off chubby and in shape than thin and look like you were poor.

[Adrianna7868]

There is no act. People just see you as more attractive when you lose weight and thus do not want to miss out on the opportunity to date a good-looking person. It's no secret that people are more attractive when thinner; this is basic darwinism.

[Texaskid1]

1. People look better when they are slim. If you look better you get treated better. Not many people like to hear that. But it is what it is.
Just go to several stores in shorts, flip-flops, and an old t-shirt.

Than do the same thing after you have shaved and are dressed sharp.

If you're honest you will notice a marked difference in how you are treated.

People don't like to admit it but looks do matter.

2. If that person knew you when you were overweight they will have a certian respect towards you. Losing weight is easier said than done; it requires much discipline.

[Kdude010]

Then I guess everybody is fake and is putting on a fake act. Yea no thanks.

[Texaskid1]

What do yo mean by "everybody is fake"?

[jj389x]

Could be proud of you. Could be happy for you and could be that your previous weight was what kept them from approaching you originally. Some reasons are good. Others aren't. They should just be happy about their new healthier body ☺

[princessfromjupiter]

Because thin is more attractive & everyone knows it?

[Kdude010]

More attractive = more likely to be fake? That's true I guess. Real people stick with you through all your journeys. Weightloss definitely helped me weed out all of the fake "attractive" people.

[princessfromjupiter]

Uhh I was talking about the person who lost weight but sure

[med111111]

This

[Kdude010]

And I'm talking about those "thin", "attractive" people trying to be friendly only after a persons weightloss transformation. They're the biggest fakes out there.

[princessfromjupiter]

How is it fake?
They find you genuinely more attractive when you’re thinner so if anything kissing your ass when you’re fat would be them being fake

[Kdude010]

They're fake because they only appear after your weightloss transformation. Where were they before the weightloss? They're like gold diggers. Gold diggers are only friendly because you have money. These fake "attractive" people are only friendly because youve lost weight. Real people are those that don't care if you're broke, or fat. They're right there with you in every step of the way.

They want to be friendly now? Where was all that friendliness before? Gtfo lol

[princessfromjupiter]

Oh wow you have no idea what the concept fake means then...

[Kdude010]

Lol like you would understand

[princessfromjupiter]

I certainly have more of a grasp than you do.

[Kdude010]

your original comment literally says that being "thin is more attractive". You've clearly proven that you have no idea.

You're speaking from a high horse pretending you know the struggle of former fat people. Are you the fake "friendly" person my question is addressing? Do you even have any fat friends?

Weightloss has definitely helped me steer away from
people like you. You've proven my point lol

[princessfromjupiter]

Lol as person who has struggled with anorexia for almost literally half their life I think I have a pretty good idea but thanks for making assumptions about me, as a former fat person you’re obviously deservingly on the higher horse despite your inability to speak sarcasm and lack of tolerance for opinions different from your own. Quite some unprecedented level of hypocrisy, but yet you were probably like really fat.

[Kdude010]

Lack of tolerance lol? Weightloss has helped me tolerate less for bs excuses like "attractive" people putting on a fake act of being "friendly" lol.
Don't put on a fake act of being "friendly" just because someone has lost weight. Those people can see through the bs fake act lol.

"Attractive" people are definitely the fakest humans out there lol

[djmzes]

Simple

[totallygeneric]

My mom is going through the same thing right now. All I can do is apologize on behalf of our fucked up society.

[anonnnyguy]

Maybe you're a happier, nicer person that feels better about yourself afterwards

[Kdude010]

It opened my eyes spotting the fake people. That is for sure.

[DeviloftheValleys]

Because
1. You are more attractive.
2. You look like you take care of yourself, and so baggage is not a problem.
3. Losing weight is impressive.

[Kdude010]

Yea pretty sure it's all fake. They're fake. Real people stick with you through all your journeys.

[LegendarySir]

Because fat is generally ugly. If you're unattractive to people, they're not gonna be interested in you. Not only that, but being fat affects your mood too. Negative people aren't welcomed in most people's lives.

[oddwaffle]

Because you look better and you have the strong will to do something other people can't.

[armleg]

Because you're not a lazy slob anymore? you're actually worth something now?

[Kdude010]

"Fit" people aren't worth more than anybody else. They're just like everyone else, but probably more fake

[caesarsalad77]

Because it takes hard work and dedication to lose weight and it shows that they care about there health

[DDpsy]

Because before you were a rude insult to my freaking senses you fat fuck.

[Anonymous]

But are you sure you treat the president and the homeless the same and everything between?

[Paris13]

They are Proud of You!!! xx

[Kdude010]

"Healthy" people are the biggest fakes. They only become friendlier when you're someone else.

[jessicarosen]

They could be just being fake.

[Anonymous]

Because it's easier for fat people to get angry

[Anonymous]

women do this the most

[Secretgardenblood]

I dont know