How do I make my boyfriend understand that I’ll look unattractive if I gain weight?

[Anonymous]

This is how my body looks now

And my boyfriend keeps pressuring me to gain weight. I always try to explain him that I’m an apple shape and gaining weight will make me look like this.

[hellohruu]

If he likes ‘thick’ girls he’s not worthy of being your boyfriend anymore. Your body is amazing and there’s nothing to be further improved. Don’t let him make you insecure. Many would love to lose weight and have that body. There’s plenty of guys who would love you just the way you are and wouldn’t call you anorexic

[Anonymous]

Have you shown him these pics? lol Maybe he likes bigger girls if he's asking you to gain weight. And how much? Like maybe he's only suggesting a little, not like pictured above? So 2 things, why does he want you to gain the weight? And second, maybe explain to him that YOU won't like yourself if your body looks like that (I'm guessing). So therefore, will end up making you unhappy. Does he want that?

[ChrisMaster69]

Simply tell him it’s your body, you are happy with it and to fuck himself.

you look great.

[Asker]

Thank u

[laraWM]

Just tell him you feel good with your body like that, no matter you'd look like with some more weight.
Otherwise your boyfriend may think it looks like you have some high margin before reaching the second picture.

[HawkPerception]

I much prefer girls with your body types to all this "thick" notion. I feel bad for you because you look healthy. I'd personally just ignore him. If it's a deal breaker for him, then good... saves you the trouble of dealing with him anymore.

[serious]

Why does he want you to gain weight? strange

You look fit and toned.

[Asker]

He says that he likes thicker women with hourglass bodies, I used to be fat in my high school years ( big stomach/ thin legs/ thick hands - apple shaped body lol) and I was finally confident in my body after losing all that weight, but rn he ruined it..

[serious]

In my view, you shouldn't gain weight unless you want to do it just for the sake of pleasing your boyfriend. Doing things just for the sake of pleasing please is not the right way to lead your life.

Hence your current physique is very attractive and toned you should be this way.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot, it’s not healthy for me to gain weight due to my body shape because the fat that gets deposited is called ‘visceral’ fat and can lead to cancer and heart disease:) thanks for your opinion, you made me feel better haha

[serious]

I made you feel better? Really?

Okay.

[Surely]

Gaining weight is usually too easy to do. Let alone on doing it on purpose!
Harder to loose!
Tell him to enjoy what he currently has or find someone more to his liking!

[jahaims]

Your fit, definitely don't put on weight just for your boyfriend

[Asker]

He calls me ‘anorexic’ not fit. He said that I should try to get a thick hourglass body..

[jahaims]

He just prefers thicker girls and is trying to get to to conform so he gets what he wants

[Asker]

Even if I wanted to get thick, not even gym will help me because I deposit fat differently than most people. The fat that gets deposited on my stomach is bad fat which could lead to heart disease and other illnesses like cancer because of my apple shaped body, if I don’t keep my body lean.

[Anonymous]

If he hasn't figured it out by now; you should probably dump him for someone smarter who will appreciate your figure as it is.

[Asker]

I want to do that but it amazes me how can he not understand that everyone gains weight differently, how can he not understand, he’s also a medical student! God help the poor people he’ll treat if he becomes a doctor

[Anonymous]

well think of it this way at least you'll have bigger and fatter tits for him to suck on and play with

[Iron_Man]

No please don’t it’s unhealthy

[Wise4myage]

Maybe it’s time to dump him?

[Shihab91]

show him these pictures

[Asker]

I did, he says that I won’t look like that.

[Shihab91]

my advice is to seek professional help like nutrition specialist what if there is a middle solution who know you might like the results