This girl I love, I thought she was flirting with me. What can I do? I'm desperate!!!

[bluesman87]

This girl I love, I thought she was flirting with me. She wanted me to take her to a movie and write a song with her, but she backed off the last couple of weeks. I'm practically in love with this girl to the point that I wouldn't hesitate to take a bullet for her at any given moment, but I found out she's talking to someone else. I really want to just tell her how I feel, but I don't want to make things awkward since I work with her. I don't know what to do and it's tearing me up. I've been depressed for the last two days because I don't want to lose this one. I'm completely broken and have absolutely nowhere to turn. What should I do? I don't want to make her uncomfortable because, chances are, she just wants to be friends as I am overweight, and I don't know If I can handle that. Can someone please help!?!

[Rain17]

i think, you should try and telling her but be sure you are in the right moment so it doesn't come off as awkward and needy =3

anyway.. just so you know if a girl is flirting with you and with other guys she doesn't want anything serious or she hasn't found what she is looking for :/

try and be just friends for now, sorry I can't help further but I think is best if you try the friend thing let her figure herself.. but tell her how you feel without coming on too strong



i think I confused you more sorry lol xD

[bluesman87]

nah it's cool. I just decided to let go. It hurt bad, but I'm kinda glad I did it. I want her to be happy, and I'm not the best looking guy in the world. I mean, she's young, and still in the "Tall Dark and Handsome" phase. She hasn't realized that all guys like that are grade A d-bags. If she ever sees, that I would always do my best to make her happy, I'll be there. As long as she's happy, I'm content with letting her go. thank you though for your help.

[Rain17]

awesome :P

im glad :)

[bluesman87]

Ironically enough, I decided to let go, and now we are going to the movies on Friday:) I just hope she isn't playing games

[Rain17]

hmm.. just be cool :P

be a friend :P