Super skinny=not so great?

[mb31213]

So pretty much every girl I know would love to be super model skinny and I'm not fat but I'm not really skinny ad would like to be. But I keep seeing guys saying they like girls with big butts, kinda thick thighs, and even a little bit of a chubby stomach! So I'm very confused, should I lose weight or stay not chubby but not skinny?

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Also I already have a boyfriend, it's not really about getting guys. I'm kinda just curious about why people wanna be so skinny when I ears so much stuff contrary to that. And also see what my boyfriend might want, idc either way as long as I don't get bigger I'm OK with my size

[nermalinda]

There are definitely guys who like either extreme, but I would say most guys just want the girl to be a healthy weight and somewhat toned.

The whole thing about the media pushing super ultra skinny and these celebs being like a size -000 and that kind of stuff is a bit weird. I mean, a lot of supermodels are naturally super thin. Like I have a friend who is a model, and her whole family is extremely tall and thin. Her dad is like 7ft tall and skin and bones. And they all have to try to eat more to keep on weight.

So yeah, I guess my point is that I don't really get why girls want to be extremely thin. I think for most girls, being around the healthy BMI ranges looks perfectly good. And that's what most guys like anyways.

[madmisskelly]

I feel like girls hear what they want to hear when it comes to body image. I have heard men say they love everything from super skinny to really large women. When I am at my worst, I will ignore the ones saying "i like curves" and immediately focus on the ones who say they want a skinny girl. I know the skinnier girls do the same. They focus on the guys who say they want curves.

Everyone wants what the other has.

Bottom line, if you are happy with what you look like, and you are healthy, THAT is what matters. Someone will love you no matter what you look like.

[peace-love-couture]

We go straight to the negative and it definitely isn't only limited to girls, guys(on this site at least) do it alot. I guess the negative sticks out far more than the positives

[madmisskelly]

Especially when you aren't feeling so good about yourself, you are way more likely to respond and hear the negative because it is already what you believe.

[drummerdude25]

Yes, super skinny, aka "supermodel thin" is bad... Most guys love a girl with some healthy curves, and curves don't equate to being fat...

A few extra pounds aren't necessarily bad either, it just depends on a woman's proportions.

[ITLSTL]

I like a woman that's in shape, skinny but not anorexic, and by in shape, I mean flat stomach but no super defined six pack.

[peace-love-couture]

Maintain a healthy weight and keep toned and in shape.

There's a difference between being mal-nourished skinny and just slim and being fat/chubby and "thick"(which wayyy too many girls confuse)

If you need to lose weight, lose weight. Don't sit around waiting for society to find fat attractive. If you need to gain weight, gain it. Of course, you should lose or gain for yourself, but you can't complain if society doesn't find either attractive.

Just be healthy, eat healthy and exercise regularly.

[Anonymous]

There are different types of guys. Some who like bone thin girls, some who like average girls and some who like thick girls. Basically no matter what your body type is (as long as you're not obese and sometimes even then) you will have guys attracted to you. Don't worry so much about what guys like, trust me guys will be attracted to you as long as you aren't grossly obese that's a given for any woman. Do what you feel is best for you. Do you want to lose weight, gain it or stay the same? Its your body, no one can decide but you

[moloz]

Girls like guys with six pack as well. Does that limit their number potential partners? Probably.

[Anonymous]

if you're too too skinny, you would be unhealthy and not look so good.

Plus people who are mega skinny are not fit to have children.

Guys will look at a nice round butt and like to bang it because... it looks like it is nice child bearing size... if you know what I mean.

and this is a scientific FACT that was in a cosmo magazine.

[ZenQueen]

I lovee super skinny. It's not for guys, not for girls, it's for me, it what I like and it will always be my goal, slim and light:)

[selfishstars]

Not all guys like the same thing. Everyone has different tastes and you'll never please all of them. So long as you're healthy, maintain your body the way you want it.

[beerY33]

being super skinny is not all it's cracked up to be. if you're a healthy weight as you are, leave it be!

[jennbunny]

You're fine the way you are. You'll find a guy that'll like you just the way you are.

[kaythanksbye]

Yaaa it's not that great tbh

[R_fraser]

I say, lose the weight chubs

[R_fraser]

down vote? aww I didn't mean it in a bad way. I meant it in a cute way chubs is cute !

[Luopio27]

I love Victoria's Secret Angel types.

[xzinax2]

just be healthy