Are you happy?

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Forr all the players, singles, lovers, gays, fat, skinny, etc. We want to hear honest answers. Are you happy people?

Brando · Accepted Answer

Eh, yes and no. I'm content with my life at the moment, it's nothing exciting and I kind of have a routine (although it's recently changed, so I have a new routine). I'm not sad about it, but the images I have in my head of the life I could see myself in vs. what I'm actually living, don't match.

But at the same time, I feel really good in certain areas of my life (such as the thought of progress in the future). Assuming I'm not thinking about the distance of the future, then I just imagine what kind of position I could be in and it's exciting. I know that plenty of people have it worse than me and I have lately been trying to reassure myself of all the things I have to be thankful for. It feels a little silly for me to complain about things that bother me when others have a much worse situation or problem to deal with. But I don't compare myself to others (or vice versa) very much.

So yeah, I'm happy with certain things in my life as well as my potential for the future. But in other areas or of my enjoyment/excitement with life, I'm not satisfied.

motographer · Accepted Answer

Certainly not the happiest person alive, I don't have the most buzzing social life, I don't have a crap load of friends, I'm not a guy who gets hit on by many girls, or is a player, I lead a simple life, surrounded by my family and a group of closely knit friends, I've had my share of good times and crappy times and so I'm fairly a happy person.

tohrment · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. I am content. I am definitely not unhappy, but rather unsatisfied. I want things in life and I'm doing what I can to improve things. At the moment, I'm getting closer and closer to the kind of life I want to make for myself. Any bouts of unhappiness that I do have are usually the results of me getting into a routine, and I hate too much predictability. I'm single and that aspect of my life doesn't upset me at all. I thrive on my independence, and it's difficult to find a guy who feels the same way.

cristinaboss · Accepted Answer

Right now, I am ridiculously happy. I have incredible friends and family. I'm single and I absolutely love it. I don't always stay happy though... There are days where something goes wrong and my life doesn't seem so great anymore. But at this point, I'm so happy with myself and my life.

ShootingStar5 · Accepted Answer

I definitely am. I've always had a sunny disposition. Life's just not worth living if you're miserable all the time, so I always try to look at the bright side :)

tc1125 · Answer

I'm happy :)

I've never really been unhappy though, sure there's times when perhaps I wouldn't regard myself to be happy but on the other hand I don't feel sad. I don't tend to feel sad or unhappy that often. I'm happy that I have what I have and feel lucky for it.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm taken, and I'm not that fat or that skinny.

Am I happy? I thought this was a good question.

On one hand, I think life is pretty good. I don't work, my husband provides enough for the both of us.

On the other hand, I feel life is pretty sucky in that I use to work full time and go to grad school full time and had tons of family and friends to hang out with that I sacrificed to marry and live with my husband, and he barely wants to be with me and barely has time to be with me.

I guess I am sad, but I am happy. it's hard to say. happy that I don't have to look around for a significant other, sad that I am away from close family and friends. :(

Anonymous · Answer

The majority of the time I'm happy, I have my boyfriend and my mates who I love to bits and can truelly be myself around. I also have my plans and my dreams but occasionally it feels like I'm sabotaging  this by being self critical and not thinking that I am good enough :( I'm happiest when I love myslef and don't give a damn about what others think :) x

Anonymous · Answer

no I don't think I am. I'm single and never been in a relationship. its been making me feel a little insecure about myself. I keep thinking that something is wrong with me. I'm trying to work on myself... in other aspects of my life too (social life, academic life) I want to improve and just be better so I've gotta make sone changes.

Anonymous · Answer

I am, but I never really realized how lucky I am. I often feel down, but it all depends on what we concentrate, we can be the luckies people in the world and not happy  cos of our mindset. So id say I am happy in general, but I feel sh*tty at times . : S

audrinamarie · Answer

I am happy.(: after setting priorities straight and being positive, I have found myself to be happier.(:

KarKingJack · Answer

I don't believe in nor particulary want the sustained state of happiness; I'm very happy at times and very unhappy at others, and I'm happy with that ;)

Anonymous · Answer

i m happy because I'm single and don't desire to move after girls(and I'm not gay) and I wish I stay single or maybe have a girlfriend at the most (certainlly not marriage)

but on the other I'm unhappy because of studies and work stuffs.

Anonymous · Answer

Am I happy For the most part, yes :) I have an amazing fiancé that I adore and that adores me, I've go an amazing mother that loves me and supports me with most things. There's not a lot to complain about but I think everyone has issues of some sort.

ChelseaBun · Answer

for the first time a long while I can actually say yes I am happy. Things are going good for me right now and I love it!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm currently single and don't like it anymore lol.

amilleman · Answer

Some days I feel wonderful and great others I cry myself to sleep.  It's all about my mood I guess. But over all I think I'm pretty happy I guess.

WovenEclipse · Answer

I'm fairly happy :) Though I'm usually happier than I have been as of late :D

Anonymous · Answer

single and I am happy but I would much rather be with someone. but better single and happy, then in a relationship and miserable

Anonymous · Answer

I know I'm lucky, but I don't find myself being happy much.. I don't know why?

Anonymous · Answer

I am seeing someone but that doesn't really mean its working out, perfectly.

Anonymous · Answer

i am not happy but I am not sad too so I am "just" ok

Anonymous · Answer

I am...looking forward to be happy.

Cailleach · Answer

I am content with my life. Very content.

Dantemustdie · Answer

I'm as happy as a lark!

Lupianwolf · Answer

I don't know about happy just content

Seannn · Answer

I'm of dutch blood, ofc I'm happy

yagurlnira768 · Answer

Single...Open...and Very Happy and Content.

SayHelloToMyAfro · Answer

Not really at the moment.

ketfoen · Answer

i'm sad, that your happy with that photo.

whatson · Answer

Nope

irykiryk · Answer

I'm fairly decent.

Jazz_92 · Answer

yes I am :)

InMyHeart · Answer

I'm content.

Shadoww · Answer

YeS!

MalibuBeach · Answer

No!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm very happy.

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