My boyfriend doesn't want me to lose weight, what's the deal?

[Anonymous]

Don't get me wrong, I'm happy my boyfriend loves me as is and we'v been together for almost 3 years and we're in love.

But.. I'v been gradually gaining weight for the last three years and right now I'm 20 kilos overweight. I know how to loose it and I'm on my way but the thing is, my boyfriend doesn't like it. every time I loose a kilo, which is like twice a month, he gets all upset and tells me not to loose weight. Why would a guy want that? (no he doesn't have a fat fetish)

[SuperCurious]

Well having a little extra weight is actually a good thing lol with most women it adds to the womanly figure, now that doesn't always go for all ladies, but for a lot, if you still work out to keep tone it adds the curves in all the right places such as your boobs and butt and having a few extra lbs is actually good for your face, it helps reduce wrinkles and all that :) and guys like a little something to grab onto lol. But your guy liked you before and he likes you now. I'm sure he will love you regardless of if you loose the weight or not, he just isn't used to you being a little thinner. Make sure you loose or don't loose weight because it is what YOU want, he should love you however you are :)

[SuperCurious]

Thanks for B.A :D

[Asker]

It was very encouraging :)

[SuperCurious]

Yay :) ha ha glad I could help

[frankwolf88]

r you skinny? might have some fat not really hurtful? can you see your own curves and stuff?

[Asker]

If your asking about anorexia, then no, I'm not anorexic, I'm actually overweight. Even my doctor confirmed it