Look, my girlfriend's gained 25 lbs since we met. She's devastated by this. I couldn't care less. Have I noticed her weight increase? Of course I have. I see all of her flaws, I just don't care about them. I hope that she, in turn, overlooks my own flaws. I don't love her any less, and I'm not any less attracted to her sexually.
This being said, she feels gross and ugly, and my opinion seems to bear very little weight. When I tell he she's beautiful, she tells me that I'm lying, blind or crazy. Kind of hurts my feelings a little, I'd hope that my opinion in that matter would count at least to some extent, but it apparently doesn't.
And it does affect her. She's not as outgoing as she used to be, and she's less interested in having sex. She rarely initiates it anymore, and it's because she feels ugly. That being the case, I'm resolved to help her meet whatever goal she sets for herself. Because I want her to be happy.
Chances are, your boyfriend loves you the way you are, and is attracted to you all the same. Your self-image is your hangup, not his, so don't blame him for it.
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You better believe it!
Look at this:
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I think that most men would change middle or right one. I certainly would.
Why would he lie?
its not his right to give you permission, or forbid you from gaining are losing weight. its your body, not his. do what you want.
if you think you should lose weight, don't use him as an excuse to be lazy.. which is what it looks like. you know its not his decision. this post is not serious.
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