How do I cope with people hurting me if it leaves me with mental disorders like BPD?

I went ANON because I know how stigmatized BPD is

I have autism and adhd and I have figured out socializing very well, but the pain of BPD makes it difficult

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I wanna cope with people hurting me and not have it effect me interacting wtih new people.
How do I cope with people hurting me if it leaves me with mental disorders like BPD?
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