When should I tell a woman my problem regarding having kids?

[Anonymous]

Last week, I found out my issue is 0% morphology. This means less than 1% of my swimmers are normal in shapes. All the rest are deformed and even if it got to an egg, it can't penetrate the wall.

Ok all hope isn't lost and I have a small chance of still getting a woman pregnant in the future or maybe through help by IVF. Something (even by a smaller %) is better than nothing but still, it's like nature played a cruel card on me. I know I'm not ready for kids yet but I wasn't prepared for something like this either. I didn't want this news either.

So if I get into a relationship, when should I tell a woman this? Would a woman date me with this issue?

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For once I wish I was a normal man, not a freak.

[Little_Bumblebee]

You tell them as soon as you can, so they can make an informed decision.
You would want the same if it were the other way around.

Also, what do you want then? You talk about what other options there would be, or if you don't want kids at all.

[helva]

As soon as possible when you both think starting a relation.

[kramchancel]

If it was me, I would say it after the first sex. Unless you marry first before doing it. If that is the case and you know she really likes kids then the sooner the better

[Surely]

I wouldn’t be in a hurry to tell about my problem. But do tell long before the engagement ring. Unless she mentions before that time that she definitely wants children.

[Asker]

Yes and this likely reduces the dating pool of available women. It's one thing to not be ready for kids yet but another to receive a news like this. I wanted to eventually form a family.

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO. Remember, there is always that one in a million chance!