Are thin equally attractive as fat guys in your eyes?

[Anonymous]

By fat I don't mean obese, I mean chubby. And before you say "a guy who doesn't take care of himself isn't attractive" which I understand, I've just spending my time prioritizing more important things like studying, doing internships, working on two side hustle's, etc. And I honestly I can't get my mind to put my health first like even when I'm too sick to do anything, all I can think about is to get back to work. Anyway, this routine everyday has given a belly and I notice that girls have stopped approaching me ever since, so what I'm asking is do all women have the same view on fat men? I heard a girl in my class say fat guys are undateable and unworthy of making babies with.

[SueShe]

Fat or slightly overweight does not have to mean unhealthy. A little padding does not harm as long as there are no underlying health issues that could make these few pounds become an issue.

To me, it is not so much the height or weight that are determining. It is more the personality and character of that person. If I was into dating, then I would certainly prefer to date a man that is slightly overweight but has the ability to have a good conversation, that is witty and that has a good sense of humor.

I don't particularly like those people, men and women, that have a body cult and that spend every free minute in the gym and that count every single calorie they take.

[Flower7]

Overweight guys are definitely less attractive.

With as busy as you are, I’m surprised that you even have time to eat so much. It seems like your situation would cause you to lose weight, not gain it.

[Asker]

Interesting. Why are they less attractive?

And I don't have time to eat lol, I eat only one meal a day.

[Flower7]

Their face gets really big and round for one thing. And the overall appearance of the body doesn’t look good. They also sometimes get fat that looks like they have boobs which is weird-looking.

[Asker]

Yeah I got small moobs. So looks over personality for you right?

[Flower7]

Well even if I like the personality, there still has to be some attraction there.

[Nikki1989]

I would rather have a chubby guy than a skinny guy any day.

[Babygirl_S]

I don't like too skinny but I like the "dad bodies". I don't care as much but I appreciate when a guy is into fitness like me.

[On_cloud_wine]

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