Girls, Why is it so hard for less big/thick legged women to cross their legs?

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

Before I hit puberty, I could cross my legs easily because I was thin. I was tall and bigger than other girls but still thin but when I hit puberty, I gained weight which is normal and expected but then I gained more weight and it was harder for me to cross my legs with my fat ass legs. I was 252lbs by 11th grade but now I’m 201lbs and it’s a bit easier to it’s my legs again. Being a large built, tall woman is difficult. I wasn’t large built before I hit puberty.

[petitedollbabee]

Well it makes sense. When there’s a lot of fat or muscle in the way, you’re not going to be as flexible or easily able to move around compared to when you were thinner.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

Well that’s why I’m losing the weight so I can cross my legs again. I was very active when I was thinner and whatever but I got fat and ugly in 11th grade.

[petitedollbabee]

It’s normal for our bodies to change as we get older. You’re a woman now, not a teenager. Your body will never return to how it was before 11th grade and there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s natural.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

What does being a woman have to do with it? I know I won’t be thin like I was but I wanna be able to cross my legs again. My doctor said to aim to 180-185lbs because if I get to the weight I was when I was in middle school (155-165lbs), I’ll look sick and plus I’m a woman so it’s normal for us to be thicker and for women to be curvier.
No wonder us ladies look wider and heavier no offense. Not all women are heavier.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

Plus 252lbs isn’t healthy. I’m down to 201lbs now.