Before I hit puberty, I could cross my legs easily because I was thin. I was tall and bigger than other girls but still thin but when I hit puberty, I gained weight which is normal and expected but then I gained more weight and it was harder for me to cross my legs with my fat ass legs. I was 252lbs by 11th grade but now I’m 201lbs and it’s a bit easier to it’s my legs again. Being a large built, tall woman is difficult. I wasn’t large built before I hit puberty.
Girls, Why is it so hard for less big/thick legged women to cross their legs?
What Girls Said
Well it makes sense. When there’s a lot of fat or muscle in the way, you’re not going to be as flexible or easily able to move around compared to when you were thinner.
Well that’s why I’m losing the weight so I can cross my legs again. I was very active when I was thinner and whatever but I got fat and ugly in 11th grade.
It’s normal for our bodies to change as we get older. You’re a woman now, not a teenager. Your body will never return to how it was before 11th grade and there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s natural.
What does being a woman have to do with it? I know I won’t be thin like I was but I wanna be able to cross my legs again. My doctor said to aim to 180-185lbs because if I get to the weight I was when I was in middle school (155-165lbs), I’ll look sick and plus I’m a woman so it’s normal for us to be thicker and for women to be curvier.
No wonder us ladies look wider and heavier no offense. Not all women are heavier.
Plus 252lbs isn’t healthy. I’m down to 201lbs now.