Do you know anyone with Borderline Personality Disorder?

[Lynx122]

Let's just say I had an experience this weekend and it was pretty crazy.

[jennifer_bloom]

I know one or two people who fall into that category. One guy has hated me for over 5 years because I rejected him when he tried to date me and I learned through a friend that he is always saying horrible things about me behind my back. I don’t even think he liked me that much, he just hates me for wounding his ego and wasting his time since he was faking his religion to attract me.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Nope. Me and one best friend deal with depression and anxiety, while another best friend deals with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think I have encountered someone like this. Let's just say that it was an unpleasant experience.

[Lynx122]

She's obsessed with this guy and he doesn't care about her he fucked her and then he blocked her and she had a meltdown and we tried to support her because we're like a friendgroup but she doesn't listen to anything we say lol she still wants to go back to him because she just talks herself into these delusions and anything in reality that speaks against her world view she finds some kind of exuse for it. It's weird to witness and when she's brainwashed herself completely she becomes super happy because she believes he loves her and they'll be together even though he's never cared about her and he's fucking other girls. But it's fine, next time I'll let her fall on her face maybe she'll learn something I'm better friends with other people in the group anyway she's just sort of also there. But it was a crazy night that I won't forget when she had her meltdown.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow. Poor thing. Honestly, bro, in this case, I wouldn't put that on her. I don't think it's her fault. Women are greatly affected by being used sexually and then discarded like that. The dudes that are doing that really need to change their ways. Or maybe we need to change the laws, so that they can be criminally charged and locked up for playing women like that. It's not right. Men like that are really terrible people.

[Lynx122]

He's an asshole but he's just a regular asshole. It's her obsession with affection that's really screwing her. She's like a drug addict in withdrawal or something. You can tell her don't go back and explain the situation but she won't care. She needs to learn and accept that she's not healthy atm that's the only way. You can't protect everyone from everything. She already stalked her ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend. They got a restraining order against her, she even wrote the new girlfriend give me your gun so I can kill myself. I don't like the guy but I honestly think this is more on her and her refusal to accept that she's not thinking straight and not seeing reality.

[Jamie05rhs]

Again, it's not her fault. She was just a sensitive person. He took advantage of her. He did this to her.

[Jamie05rhs]

But yes, she does need counseling. Someone should help her to get through this situation and recover and heal.

[Jamie05rhs]

(Thanks for the MHO, by the way!)

[Anonymous]

Nope but I'm schizophrenic. I'm sure I probably met someone in the mental institution I was in with it.

[Iron_Man]

Does taking medication help

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it helps a lot.