Do I seem controlling? My husband said he is sick of be treated badly?

[Genx4life]

I have cancer and am a germaphobe?

I don't want any sprays or cologne or candles in my house they are toxic

I don't want anyone touching me even to hand me things they probably don't wash their hands

If I in a bad mood my husband has to be quiet no talking

My husband was pissed that I said that and wouldn't get out of the shower so I could wash my hands I feel like he is full of germs so I can't have him around me

I am trying to eradicate germs

I wash my hands until they are raw

I expect him to get off the toilet if I want to wash my hands and not pee until I say he can

I don't want him in a room when I am in it like if he is getting a snack he has to leave so I can wash my hands or reclean the dishes because he doesn't do anything right

[jahaims]

You don't know how germs work if you think half of that stuff. Germs are in the air. If you aren't in a bubble with something like a hepa filter you are going to be exposed. Washing your hands until they are raw kills the "good germs" too and make you even more vulnerable. Him not being allowed to make noise when you are moody is as cunty as could be.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, but I'm sure he was aware of your issues because he married you.

[HelpfulWoman]

your husband can only become an ex as quick as he can. jesus

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Not only are you controlling but also very annoying.

[laly520]

ig u need to get a divorce

[Jmmmfi4]

WHAT A NUT CASE