Hi, are there any experienced trainers who could advise me, a peri-menopausal woman on specific exercises for the typical distended abdomen?

I saw a plastic surgeon five years ago who said, oh yes you absolutely need surgery to stitch your abs back together etc, now the skin is unrepairable however when i tense my abs there is no gap in between so am i correct this means i can fully tone my abs? if so please please help me!

Hi, are there any experienced trainers who could advise me, a peri-menopausal woman on specific exercises for the typical distended abdomen?
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