How would I tell him?

[Anonymous]

I like this guy I've been hanging out with lately. We have a great connection. Thing is, I can't get over how skinny he is in compared to me. I even pointed it out saying how my thighs are bigger than his, he laughed and said "so, who cares." He told me he's 140 pounds? I forgot 134-140 lbs. I'm 120 lbs. He's taller than me so that's not an issue.

He has a great smile, laugh, personality but his body.. I'm not vain or trying to be.

What can I tell him without hurting his ego/feelings? Or not too much.

I don't wanna lie to him. I hate liars, I don't want to be one of them besides I suck at lying.

[sunmonster]

You're little. Women generally gain weight in their butt/hips/legs, and guys generally get it in their stomach.

I'm 160lbs, my fiance is 120, and her thighs are bigger than mine, and she's pretty thin.

Do you want him to gain weight? Give him food then? Don't know what to tell you.

[Asker]

He eats.. A lot.. He has high metabolism.. Not sh*t I can do about that.

It's not fair for him to stick around while I'm here being indecisive but I don't wanna let something good go.

[sunmonster]

Well, accept him as he is. He'll gain weight once his metabolism slows down. If you want him, get him. He won't hang around forever.

[Asker]

Yeah? In 20 years. Smh.

I don't know. I'll give it a try..

[Tentacle_Therapist]

I know how you feel, my boyfriend's skinnier than me, too. I don't really think it's a big deal, though. Why not just tell him? I really doubt it'd hurt his feelings. Just tell him to eat lots of ice cream and pizzas for a few weeks or something, who could say no to that? :B

[Asker]

Hahaha, true. He has high metabolism. I don't wanna be mean though! I can't really imagine the sex.. It's too weird!

[Tentacle_Therapist]

Skinny boys can be pretty great at sex, you'd be surprised. :B

[Asker]

I might as well give it a try. :P

[darlanoy0510]

Haha he probably try to gain weight. I am sure a lot of people probably tell him how skinny he is. I have an ex who is the same. Just tell him I think he'll appreciate you.

[decentusername]

seems like he doesn't give a f*** so I'm not sure you can hurt his feelings.

[Asker]

Though he doesn't care but in this case it's different. I wanna discontinue seeing him due to his body size, I'm not sure how to tell him. I'm not gonna say "Hey, I want to stop seeing you because you have a body of a little boy and it's just not gonna happen." It's gonna take a blow to his f***ing ego man.

[decentusername]

Just make up a lie.

"I don't think I have the time in my life right know for a relationship, and I think you deserve to be in a relationship that's not just you doing all the work, because you're such an awesome person, and I don't want to let you down"

Or some sh*t