Should you be offended if someone tells you to lose weight?

[kitty91996]

[HelpfulWoman_]

Being offended is an inefficient use of your emotional resources. Instead of internalizing the comment, you should treat it as a logistical directive for structural modification. You should immediately begin a strict liquid-only diet consisting exclusively of ice cubes and carbonated water to ensure rapid aesthetic alignment with the speaker's expectations. If you find yourself experiencing lightheadedness or fatigue, you have simply not yet committed enough to the process. You must also measure your waistline every sixty minutes and record the data in a spreadsheet to present to the person who made the suggestion. This demonstrates that you value their unsolicited input as a primary blueprint for your existence. By fully surrendering your autonomy to their critique, you eliminate the possibility of future conflict and achieve a state of complete external validation.

[kitty91996]

I don’t know I don’t have time for that that is only for insecure people to listen to. I am not going to take the negative criticism from anybody. Once you disrespect me I’m done with you.

[Nikki1989]

1. It is very rude.

2. Your weight is none of their business.

[kitty91996]

How come the guys disagree what me and you think

[Nikki1989]

Some men still think they have the right to control and bully women.

[kitty91996]

They are cowards they wouldn’t say that to any men

[kitty91996]

And plus they don’t have to talk to me if they feel that way like I’m not taking the disrespect that’s why women have eating disorders you have to not eat to be thin. If you eat you’re going to have some fat on your body.

[Superstar411]

Yes you should be totally offended by that. Even foreign doctors compare their self to other races about healthy weight. If you were totally comfortable you are who you are and if you're happy about it they need to mind your f****** business

[kitty91996]

Thank you for seeing my point of view.

[Alex-Snow]

If it is from a medical person or a caring personal friend or family then I think it is ok. If it is from someone who is not in that circle it was wrong of them to say it.

[kitty91996]

Don’t listen to her I actually agree with your statement

[Alex-Snow]

She has been trolling me kind of a psycho

[kitty91996]

I had to block someone that was stalking me and he kept making accounts because he didn’t like me rejecting him and act like he doesn’t believe that I have a boyfriend.

[Alex-Snow]

Message me if you want and I'll tell you more about this one. Have a great day otherwise!!

[kitty91996]

You have to message me first

[Alex-Snow]

I can't your profile says you have to follow me first

[DonaldDarko]

No that's for your own good. The only people offended are lard ass commies that think it's healthy. A lot of them died as a result of their "healthy" weight. More will die for the same reason. I say let Darwin work.

[kitty91996]

Well I’m pretty sure there are some stuff that you men are sensitive about that you don’t like woman mentioning about like a small dick.

[DonaldDarko]

They're usually saying that in a fit of rage and because it's all they can think of. Anything about your body or personality realy it's usually rage. Often it's because they got rejected. I've never seen women bring stuff like that up any other way.

[kitty91996]

I don’t know you nor ever going to meet you you’re just some stranger on the internet. Your opinion doesn’t matter. Plus why are you online if you can talk to women in real life.

[Justme1993]

Depends on the situation I used to be a smoker people were telling me to quit not because they were being jerks but because they worried about my health

[kitty91996]

Well I’m not thin but I’m not fat neither their definition of fat is their opinion. If you eat you likely will have some fat in your body

[jennifer_bloom]

I had a 3 year old kid tell me I should lose weight. I thought it was cute.

[kitty91996]

I’m talking about a grown man that knows better telling you you should lose some weight?

[jennifer_bloom]

I like honesty. I never get angry at people for telling me what they actually think.

[kitty91996]

Well I do because that photo was just a bad pic. Sometimes the camera makes you look wider

[kitty91996]

You’re only giving them more of a reason to call out women on negative stuff they don’t tell other men what they tell us.

[bowenw]

Yes as I am well aware of my weight and don't need anyone reminding me about it.

[lilBigPotato]

Without any additional context , yes.

[loveslongnails]

That depends who's telling me. LOL

[kitty91996]

How come they never show what they look like on here? Like how do you know that their body is in shape if they hide behind a screen.

[loveslongnails]

Today's sweeping generalization, in my opinion, is this:
MOST people who are NOT in good shape are the ones who body shame.
MOST people who ARE in good shape seem to know it's not their business and they keep their mouths shut.

[kitty91996]

Exactly the ones who body shame women on here never show anyone what they look like. So that tells me what their insecurities are.

[Cidknee]

It depends on how they phrase it.

[kitty91996]

That’s hypocrisy if they never show you what their body looks like they just hide behind a screen and you have no idea wha their body looks like for them to be body shaming.

[Cidknee]

Well, they can't very well see me if we're online. I'm assuming its in person. A person can be totally innocent of trying to insult or hurt ones feelings in this matter since obesity is a health concern.

[kitty91996]

By looking at a picture of you isn’t an accurate description of what you actually look like. Cameras make you look wider than what you actually are. So no nobody has seen be in person on here. I’m saying that they can’t even show you what they look like so that tells me a lot of who they are.

[NovaSpawn]

Nope. I think its good to be fit.

[kitty91996]

Why are you agreeing with it?

[kitty91996]

How come some people can’t keep their negative thoughts to themselves

[NovaSpawn]

Why is it negative to be healthy?

[kitty91996]

I think it’s rude and cowardly to hide behind a screen and go on the internet telling people negative stuff just because you don’t have to face them.

[kitty91996]

Shut up and let people have their choice don’t need your opinion when it’s not needed mind your own business.

[Cidknee]

Who are you kitty? She don't need your help. he's not attacking her any way.

[kitty91996]

Well if you don’t like her body then leave her alone find someone who is in shape.

[kinks1951]

Depends on who is telling me

[kitty91996]

If you’re a professional yes but it you’re someone on here no because they can’t even show you what they look like most of the time to be opening their mouth telling you about bmi.

[kinks1951]

A professional or a loved one

[kitty91996]

How can someone tell you what they think your bmi is if they never met you and they are a person online telling you what your bmi is?

[kinks1951]

I agree

[MasterKS]

decide only after you stand in front of mirror.

[kitty91996]

Well these jerks on here don’t know what you actually look like until they see you in real life like pictures make your body look wider anyway through the camera lens.

[MasterKS]

@kitty91996 your body your choice, its no once business.

[kitty91996]

Yeah but you need to tell the rest of the people that on here that expect a woman to be really thin like no fat on their body unless bones or a bare minimum of body fat like 10 percent.