Are my bigger thighs at a healthy weight actually abnormal?

[Anonymous]

Hello, I'm 18 and I'm pretty slim (52kg and 165cm) but my hips and thighs especially are bigger and my mother keeps body shaming me about it everytime, am I abnornal? Should I get a surgery to get fat removed from my thighs? Please help

[There_Is_Rehab]

Stop. Stop.

Her body shaming IS the cause of the abnormalities. I am not joking.

If she is heartless enough to shame you, what else is she heartless enough to do?

If there was any psychological repression or trauma then remember that unresolved trauma always turns into physical illnesses. ㅤ

[Asker]

She tells me worse things all the time but this one got me thinking 😕

[Massageman]

You might consider doing exercises focused on those areas. By building muscle and possibly shedding some adipose (fatty) tissue, your weight way stay the same but- since muscle is more than twice as dense as adipose tissue, you will likely have a reduction in measurement and be able to move around more easily. You're less than 30, so there is still lots of time for your to get your thighs in shape.

[Nikki1989]

There is zero medical or health-related reason for you to lose fat or undergo invasive cosmetic procedures. Your mother needs to shut her mouth.

[Anonymous]

That’s a sexy body type. Wide hips on women are beautiful

[bowenw]

Your body weight and height fall into the normal range. Your BMI is a healthy 19.1.
It is impossible to know what your hips and thighs are like without seeing them, but I suggest you ask your doctor about them. Hopefully he will dismiss your mother's concerns so she can stop shaming you. She should not be shaming you regardless of what you look like.

[OlderAndWiser]

You want us to comment on your appearance without ever seeing you?

Okay. Tell me what you think of the way I play the piano.

[bear34]

You’re petite anyway—you weigh 52 kilos—so how big could your legs possibly be? Could it be a medical condition?

[jahaims]

You can just exercise... what kind of dumbass gets surgery instead of exercising lol

[Asker]

Exercise how? I'm already skinny bruh

[mat566]

I'll have to see a pic to say something

[TakeItDeep]

I think you are overreacting about it

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nah no surgery