How can I feel feminine with a small chest if I don’t want surgery?

[Anonymous]

I want to be seen as feminine and mature not childish or boyish

[SueShe]

It is sad that in today's society, women are judged by the size of their breasts.

You can be more feminine with small breasts than a person with DD size ones. It is not just the appearance that counts but the entire behavior can compensate for the lack of chest volume.

You can dress in typical women's clothing rather than just in a t-shirt and jeans. That would possibly give the impression of being boyish. You can be stylish with a dress or appropriate clothing combination that are typically designed for women.

Don't let yourself be impressed by what other people are thinking and whatever you do, never ever even think of breast surgery.

[Asker]

Yes I see, it’s just I want to be accepted by society, I want to get sexualized and hit on more often. I want to seem more mature in a feminine way without being perceived as boyish or submissive or childish :(

[SueShe]

You do realize I hope that wanting to be sexualized and be hit on is rather something negative than positive, right?

Allowing to be sexualized will give you a reputation of being OK with being an sexual object only. That is nothing to be proud of.

[Asker]

Well I still get turned on by being seen as sexual. I feel like a failure if I’m not sexualized. It’s unfair for me to not get sexualized while I purposely dress revealing

[Asker]

I want guys to drool over my body I just like that I don’t wanna just be loved internally I wanna be lusted after

[slatyb]

With your clothing. I'm in Paris at the moment, where people, particularly young people, are generally at a healthy weight. There are many beautiful small-breasted young women.

If the men you know are fixated on large breasts, expand your dating pool. I spent a lifetime in high tech and as far as I know, almost none of my colleagues prefer large breasts.

[DryGermanGuy]

If you want to make your boobs explicitly part of fetishes/kinks you have to surgically enlarge them. Various adult actresses that have done so can show the way.

[Asker]

Why can’t my small ones be fetishized :(

[Asker]

I want my natural breasts to be sexualized

[DryGermanGuy]

It's in the nature of a fetish that fetishization and emphasis go hand in hand.

[Asker]

But why can’t men prefer natural small breasts? Why can’t they have a breastfeeding kint for small breasts. Same way I have a thing for small 🍆

[DryGermanGuy]

The majority of men prefers natural breasts. They usually don't have the fetish, though.

[Asker]

I want a guy who prefers small where can I find that

[DryGermanGuy]

I don't know your country or you social environment, sooo... 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Well you could make online videos of seeing how many things you can stuff in your hoo-ha. That would get you attention. But i'm not sure that's the attention you're looking for. But the point is that'd take the eyes of your tiny ta-ta's.🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

But I have a breastfeeding and mommy kink so I want someone with a fetish for my boobs

[Opinion Owner]

How small we talking here? A cup? Cause a b isn't really small if you ask me. It might be a little undersized but it's how you rock it. How you carry yourself. I can't help you with your fetish how you see yourself is how YOU see yourself. No one can help you with that but you.

[Asker]

Cup size is relative to band, so I am bigger than that, but because I have a small band it’s relatively very small. I honestly think a guy admiring my breasts will make me feel better. I barely have any relationship experience. I don’t want to be undersized :(. So many girls wear an and b they shouldn’t be considered undersized there’s no such thing it’s jsut society being ridiculous telling us to look a certain way. I want to be able to show off my body

[AngryCarl3]

You absolutely don't need surgery. Femininity is innate. It doesn't depend on how your body looks or what you wear.

[Asker]

I wish most men saw it this way. I just wish I was more “sexual” if that makes sense. I wish my body got noticed more

[AngryCarl3]

Your lack of sexuality as you think of it is likely due to unresolved childhood trauma. So get some therapy and let your freak flag fly.

[Staximus]

You need to fix your brain and not your boobs

[Asker]

How so? I can’t stand the lack of atyention I get

[Staximus]

You’re not a child anymore, you don’t need attention all the time

[Asker]

But all the other girls get it. I jsut want sexual attention that’s all. I get horny too yk

[Staximus]

You’ll get all the sex you want if you had some social skills

[Asker]

But I need a guy to suck on my boobs and be into those types of kinks like me. I want my body to be lusted after not just who I am inside

[liltitslove]

dear, I told you and promised you,

[wkhan_87]

Just don't care

[Asker]

But I wanna be able to do sexual stuff with my breasts and I want more sexual attention

[wkhan_87]

Only breast size isn't everything..
It is social misconception

[Asker]

I know, but it’s hard being looked over all the time :( and I want my chest to be part of my sexual experience

[wkhan_87]

Eat healthy and live stress-free and massage them...
They are improvable

[Asker]

No. Unlike common myths, Breast size is only able to change with weight gain and surgery. I have already gained weight and I can’t control my fat distribution to go there. If they were improvabke surgeons would be less common. I have tried specific foods, massages, oils, exercises etc. they do not work. Breast size it predetermined by genetics and fat storage