Are intense rape fantasies normal or a sign something is wrong?

[Anonymous]

I keep having these rather messed up fantasies and tgen find myself almost going out and doing particularly risky things, like going to a bar alone or hooking up on tinder, and I usually catch myself but... am I broken?

[Nik1hil]

Yes, You have a Neuro degeneration or Morphosis from a Disease.

You probably have a Cat, or Maybe Meet Stray cat.. or are in proximity of Cat and Cat Poop...

Cats Carry a Virus That's known as "Toxoplasma Gondii" - The Virus has no Symptoms and Does not make you sick.

But the Virus with Time, Slowly Eats Away your brain, Making you Do Risky things and Finding more pleasure in Risky things..

Not your fault nobody taught you.

You need to get an BRAIN SCAN MRI done ✅ Then Get Yourself treated for The Toxoplasma Gondii.. following which , Stay away from Cats and Keep Cats outside your house and especially your kitchen and food.

Make sure you don't end up eating any Cat poop!

[Levin]

Don't 40% of women have those fantasies?

So the answer is, you're just a woman, don't sweat it.

I mean, I'm guessing some form of acceptance is the way forward.

Something you can explore in a consensual emotionally connected relationship?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if rape fantasies are "normal", but they are certainly common among women.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/

[Agape93]

Nah. You just have a kink. You'd do well to find a partner who can safely guide you through CNC play.

[Asker]

But that would involve a boyfriend and while sex with men satisfies this particular urge, im only really attracted to other women

[Agape93]

It doesn't require a boyfriend, just a man willing to do this safely with you to satisfy that urge. b

[Asker]

And where would I find that besides a boyfriend, I mean, I dont think I can put on Tinder "ill let you rape me as king as you stop when I say" and actually get that... I mean, once they get going, they dont want to stop

[Agape93]

Try fetlife. Its a whole kink community, and it isn't too hard to find good guys willing to help you explore such a sensitive kink.

[Anonymous]

Let's see - putting yourself in life threatening situations with strangers in bars, (obviously alcohol or other drugs will be involved), or getting a disease you might never get rid of, and you want to know if you're broken? Fuck yeah, you're broken.

Women who fantasize about rape don't really understand what rape is. You probably have dreams of being overpowered sexually and used as a fuck toy, without any option to resist even if you wanted to. But at the end of that fantasy, you're safe and unharmed. That doesn't happen in an actual rape. Your life is on the line, and you have little or no control of the outcome. I doubt you can even imagine what that's like.

[JamesMI616]

no you are not broken. what ever turns you on is what turns you on you're not wrong for having a kink. with that said there are communities where you can explore these type of fantasies and even act them out in pre-arranged organized relatively safe at least on your terms situation. as opposed to just acting on impulse and throwing yourself into shark infested waters I suggest you DM me if you want to know exactly where define your like-minded community.

[gasman70]

Depends on how deep the fantasy goes and why you're having them. Like, if you want some stranger to take you and have rough sex with you, that's not really rape but it is a fantasy that you're having. If you've been raped and you're now having rape fantasies that someone is forcibly entering you totally against your will and you like it, that might be a sign of something that you might need to talk to a professional with, because that's your brain trying to cope with your trauma in a bad way.

[Jersey2]

Knock that shit off, you could get seriously hurt or killed. Find a play partner for rough sex but not a moron who accidentally strangles you. Be safe. And fantasies are often best kept as fantasies and reality can be disappointing or just plain bad.

[Jackblue]

I would suggest therapy, but you are right it is expensive. AI can pretend to be your therapist. Going to a bar alone itself isn't a problem but if you are doing so hoping someone will drug and rape you, that isn't healthy. As other people are suggesting, it is probably best you try it in a BDSM relationship.

[AngryCarl3]

AI won't touch it. At best you'd get a link to a Rape Crisis centre.

[Anonymous]

If anyone questions the fact that women fantasize about being overpowered and "taken" by a strong man, just look at some of the "steamy" romance novels that have become so overwhelmingly popular with women in recent years. It is literally one of the most popular "tropes" on Booktok.

[AviatorTom]

An occasional fantasy is fine.

But actually putting yourself in a situation where the fantasy might actually happen is not okay, it's extremely risky

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

As a rule of thumb, I believe that something is wrong when sexual fantasies are experienced as invasive enough that they put you in danger

[NoDecision]

Yeah, you could get raped, but you could be murdered on top of that. I think you need to stop eating anchovies and garlic for dinner.

[bowenw]

Those kind of fantasies are not uncommon, so don't feel like there is something wrong with you. If you want to try to experience it, try roleplaying it.

[lilBigPotato]

Everyone has their kink 🤷‍♀️ maybe not normal but not necessarily uncommon.

[slatyb]

Having the fantasies is normal. Risky behavior is not. Have you considered counseling.

[Asker]

Yeah, but thats expensive

[slatyb]

Unfortunately it is, but sometimes you can get a reduced rate depending on your income.

[Anonymous]

Its biology. I could never make an ex of mine orgasm. In fact she had never orgasmed in her life. Yet when she fot raped she had multiple squirting orgasms. She felt very guilty about it.

[Screenwriter]

Find a competent therapist to discuss these issues with. Ask your GP for recommendations.

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

firrst u need to know what rape is , it can only happen if there is no consent

u say u like it , so its not rape , its more correct if u just want to be dominated , with ur consent

[Staximus]

Maybe you should see a therapist about your self-destructive urges before you ruin your own life

[Asker]

Those cost money

[Staximus]

Well then stop being a bum and handle your business

[Asker]

How about the bum in the Whitehouse stop taxing us with tariffs and starting wars he can't finish making it impossible to get groceries we can't afford

[Staximus]

Stop making excuses, haven’t you ever heard of the affordable care act? Do something for yourself

[Staximus]

Practice some self-control before somebody finds you face down in a gutter

[Asker]

Still costs money we dont have, we can barely make rent, I make $70k/ year and when all is said and done, by "free" money each month is ablrounf $100... ACA doesn't cover therapy because the people who were against it dont believe its real healthcare.

[Staximus]

If you make 70 K a year and live with somebody else and you two can barely afford rent then you are a gross financial mismanager

[Staximus]

Maybe it’s time to extract your head from your ass and stop living inside your head and start living in the real world and making some sense

[Rorroto]

I advocated community college... but that costs money too. If money is a problem, I advocate just getting some male friends somewhere first, and waiting until they're your friends to do that. I'm sure they'll be quite thrilled to do rape roleplay with you. This is not the type of thing I'd do with strangers though. Join meetup groups or something. Any guy not in a relationship would probably be very pleased to do this with you.

[KostasKouvalis]

"something is wrong", but a lot of women have it. However, actually trying to get raped is a whole nother level.

[Anonymous]

I have heard of this before. I can't say I understand it though.

[Asker]

Its driving me a bit mad, because I know what is at the end of this road, but I can't help it sometimes

[AngryCarl3]

It's perfectly normal, until you try to act it out.

[Danny_dan92]

It’s a very unusual fetish but I’ve met some girls that have it

[AgentG111]

Absolutely not life's short, Live it up! experience everything!

[AgentG111]

Need any runs downs kick. me a message.

[Anonymous]

kind of normal at least like a fetish and a fantasy

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

No. Not yet anyway.

[Anonymous]

Wdym intense rape?

[Asker]

The urges are intense

[Opinion Owner]

You want to rape a guy?

[Asker]

I've got a part of me that wants to be raped... how would I rape a guy?

[Opinion Owner]

I enjoy being groped by my handsome nerdy chubby boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Am the first girl he ever liked , this side of him comes out only when he’s with me

[Asker]

Thats really cute and it sounds like you two are really cute and happy... im happy for you

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes i want him to rape me

[Asker]

And why? Why do we want this?

[Opinion Owner]

I just love feeling his strength inside me

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you think guys want it

[Asker]

Sex? Or to rape us? Or to be raped?

[Opinion Owner]

Why do they want to rape us

[Asker]

The desire to force us to submit and the biological need to impregnate as many of us as possible to spread their genetic material in an attempt at immortality

[Opinion Owner]

It’s sad to know my boyfriend wants other woman

[Asker]

But you let him use your body when he wants, right?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. But do you think no man can ever want just one woman

[Asker]

I think many humans have evolved past the base needs on tge hierarchy of needs, this is why rape is illegal in theory... of course not enough of them, which is why it is still essentially decriminalized in practice since most never end with any jail tome.

[shortster]

Something is wrong if they are intense.

[In_Trance]

How is your relationship with your father?

[Anonymous]

I think it's normal

[kinks1951]

Fairly normal