Why does it feel like nobody cares about deep conversations anymore?

[Anonymous]

I miss having deep conversations. Being able to talk about a situation I'm going through or an argument I got into or an idea I don't understand without having to worry that everything I say being pointless because, listening to people is somehow uncool now.

It's a little depressing. I don't know if it's just me but lately I feel like I battled depression so hard for so long and now that life feels good, I have a hard time figuring out how to relate to people anymore.

Maybe it's just me.

[valentina4eva]

irl it’s much easier to find people that care about deep conversations i think!!🤔😊 online it’s possible but u really have to work to find the special people i feel🤷🏻‍♀️ most people online are primed for toxicity & anger rather than conversion sadlyyy

[Asker]

I'm talking about irl. I feel like I'm talking to an inanimate object sometimes.

[valentina4eva]

omgg lol😅 okiee talking to inanimate objects isn’t ideal then!!🙈 i guess people just have no attention spans nowadays☹️ that is really frustratinggg
did u try asking them why they can’t seem to listen?

[Asker]

I guess I'm afraid they'll tell me I'm boring 😂

But I think any time I've hinted at it people just go "I have such bad add"

[valentina4eva]

well they aren’t my friends so it’s easier for me to say this, buttt, if on the one hand they don’t listen to u, and on the other hand they might say ur boring🤔🤔 it sounds like u might just need to find new people to talk to lol

[Anonymous]

It's not just you. Even on this site, some people openly complain they can't read more than two paragraphs because a "wall of text" is just too much for them or they can't even take a minute to read the question before they start blurting out nonsense like "nope" to a "why" question. They're probably terrible listeners in real life too with such a short attention span.

[Anonymous]

Because most people do not really care what you have to say, or think. They're only looking to have their needs filled.

[jahaims]

That's you noticing most people are shallow

[Anonymous]

I know it’s a shame