What do you think of formerly fat women?

[Anonymous]

A woman who lost like 70 pounds on her own by exercising and eating healthy

Would you worry about ending up with her , does this fact impact your impression of her negatively or positively , in what way ?

[Anonymous]

The fact that someone was fat in the past doesn't really have any bearing on my opinion of someone. So you learned how to stop eating like an idiot and got your lazy ass off the couch, and stopped being a generally unhealthy person. I don't see this as being an accomplishment worthy of praise.

That would sort of be like congratulating a 25-year old man for finally learning not to sh*t in his pants. It's something that shouldn't have been an issue in the first place.

Anyway, the fact that somebody was fat to the point of obesity or not doesn't have any bearing on my impression of him/her. What matters is what they're doing in their life right NOW that affects my opinion in a positive or negative way.

[Opinion Owner]

Seriously? I've been fat before. And it's because I was eating fast food for lunch and lounging on my ass every night. I could be all "Oh, hey, look at me, I stopped being a dumbass" but I shouldn't have been engaging in that sort of lifestyle in the first place.

Sorry if the truth of the matter isn't all rosy and happy-good-feelings, but it's still the truth.

[KingsOfleon88]

I would say that's amazing! I'd be proud of someone who was making (and had made) such a commitment to eat better and change her lifestyle. That's an accomplishment that anyone should be proud of.

[lavieboheme]

I'm one of those women (well, actually I lost only 63lbs). And let me tell you, it's hard work.

Anyone who is besides one of those women throughout the whole weightloss process can tell you it's all about sweat and tears and a lot of hard work and commitment.

Contrary to popular belief, losing a large amount of weight isn't as simple as getting the ass off the couch and stop eating crap. And I think of myself (and every single person, men and women, who lost any amount of weight) as pretty amazing.

[VALEN_tine_ANGEL]

i think she is great. she put effort into losing weight by doing healthy ways. I am always glad when I know someone does real things to get better life and finally makes it.

[martyfellow]

Wow, I'd be worried about her..lsomene who goes up and down that much, it can be dangerouos long term. I[d wonder about her mental state--is shereally depressed? I would assume so.

[Lommelun]

I'd be impressed and respect her. Anyone who can put in that kind of effort and willpower will command respect.

[Anonymous]

I would be impressed with the fact that she lost that weight and it would not be a negative as to how I viewed her physically and sexually but I would be a little nervous that she might get heavy again.

[nermalinda]

I think that's amazing. I would admire it.