When will it be "my time" ?

[theshire121]

So basically, I have been trying not to care about finding a boyfriend/ that special someone, but it's hard not to when it hasn't happened yet. I know I have to let it happen naturally, but when will it be my time? I mean, I am confident, and I get told I have a great personality... I don't think I am horrible to look at... I literally just haven't found a guy that has wanted to get to know me. I wouldn't say I'm picky, I just want to like the guys personality and be attracted to them. But if I do like someone (the 2 times it happened), they were taken. The problem with my school is it's really small and there are too many girls ha ha there's one guy who I've kind of had my eye on but he's a commuter and I only see him like 2 times a week... what should I do? wait it out?

[JustGoWithTheFlow]

I honestly feel like sometimes going out and looking for somebody just makes people pick the first boy they can get, so I think you should just wait it out. As for this boy you like, I'm not sure how things would work out with that, being that you only see him 2 times a week.

Maybe if finding a boyfriend right now isn't easy then you should just focus on your friends, family, school, etc. : )

Just go with the flow and one day you'll find a boy that you really like and you'll wonder why you ever worried about getting a boyfriend.

[curiouschica]

It sucks not knowing, doesn't it? I wish I could tell you when, but we never know about these things. I went to a small college too. Just keep trying to stay positive and be as involved in things as you can. Befriend lots of people...who knows, maybe they can introduce you to some guys or their male siblings or whatever. Try not to dwell on it TOO much because you still have to enjoy your life at the present without that special guy...u know? Chin up! And good luck! =)

[itslo]

The waiting freaking sucks. I feel you. I wish I could find someone as well. But I guess all things in life are worth waiting for. Just think about it this way once you find him you will be ready and all that wait would be worth it...and by the way your pretty

[coolbeans01]

I feel your pain. I wish I could tell you but I can't, it'll happen when it happens and I know it sucks to hear that but there's no other way around it.

Waiting for that someone and trying to find that someone sucks big time (cause even if you do find them they can be taken away from you just as easy) but you just have to hang in there, patience always pays off

[WoIIie]

Wait a minute, there's a school with TOO MANY GIRLS?

THAT'S WHERE I'M GOING.

[sikoo31]

yo I'm going to a school like that right now.

you look right, hot girls, you look left, hot girls.

its heavenly torture.

[WoIIie]

That's like shooting fish in a barrel. Go up to one and be like "hey I really like your outfit, it matches your pretty face". If you keep the convo going she'll be ALL OVER that meat. My current school has maybe a 51-49 split with guys as the majority.

[Claretica]

Waiting it out is absurd. Yes, you may meet someone eventually. But don't leave it to the hands of fate or chance. You want a boyfriend? Get the bloody hell out there and meet some guys. You have no right to complain if you aren't at least giving it a go! If you think a guy is interesting just go up and speak to him.

[Daniel89]

improve yourself you have to learn how to be more expressive! about things, express loving words to people more. and let go in life and be yourself , yourself means be the loving free person and realse all the negativity you encountered in the past, forgive it and move on

[udolipixie]

When will it be "my time" ?

Possibly when you:

- pursue much older men as youth appeals to most men

- vastly improve your appearance

- consider far less attractive and appealing guys

- consistently and persistently approach guys in various areas

[TheUglyOne]

You certainly can approach him with a coy smile and say hi. Maybe bring up a not controversial topic or ask his insight on something.

[thoughtful]

Perhaps you should put yourself into an environment where men outnumber women. Engineering class, martial arts, or football games are good options.

[antonlikesmlb]

You might as well actively look for guys. It's not like one will magically appear at your door if you wait long enough.

[sikoo31]

you're really pretty so maybe you're just not putting yourself out there enough.

[Anonymous]

Be aggressive and take what is yours :)