Do girls get along well with anybody in their clan?

[Ameya]

This place where I work has two more female employees who happen to be from my college. One of the gals is matured while the other is absolutely stupid, scatter-brained and rash...she can talk about anything and everything and can jump from one topic to another- in short brainless chatter...& such people get on to my nerves, I don't expect an intelligent conversation all the time but I just can't get along with them. However, the matured one handles her well and kinda defends her if I ever retribute the other one slightly or pass a sarcastic comment. I've in fact even almost quit talking to the two of'em, I wonder if all women can get along well with each other no matter how they are ...Though it doesn't affect me in anyway as I don't need anybody to help me or talk to me@work, but such people make me sick and thinking how come a brainy gal defend or get along so well with someone completely opposite...

[Lara90]

If you don't have to talk to them, don't talk. If they irritate you, they probably irritate everyone else in the office, but those other people don't give a damn. Usually the main reason why two girls that are so opposite stick together is because they have something in common. Have they been good friends in college too? If not, the only reason for them hanging out is that it is easier for them to hang out with someone they know, then to try to make new contacts. Ignore them, usually friendships between two people with different personalities don't last long and usually one of them is weaker and always need protection from someone else (just like the mature one is always defending the brainless one). Just ignore them, act like they don't exist and you'll see how after a while you won't even notice them around.

[PlayFair]

Some people...most people get on my nerves too. But is it me being irritable? Or are they intentionally trying to harm me by annoying me? Some people are just annoying, but they mean no harm. I can not stand rudeness, however. Different things bother different people. So I figure I need to just not let it bother me all too much. Maturity is about understanding a person even though you don't agree. Maturity is understanding that just because you don't like a person it does not give you the right to be mean. Maturity is only able to surface once all ignorance is wiped clean.

[Ameya]

that was an amazing answer...for me it's like I JUST cannot stand brainless chatter, the girl I'm talking quacks all day about some or the other thing and behaves like a 8-9 year old! May be the other matured girl knows how to tolerate her...I'll still take 2-3 months more to do that..thanks ayways.. :)

[PlayFair]

Amazing enough for a best answer? ;)