How do you encourage a gf's weight loss without making it sound like you think she's fat?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend isn't fat. is she a little bit thicker? yea. she has big boobs and a nice big ass and she may not be petite but I think its sexier.

however, she's recently been starting to work out more and is really trying to lose weight. I want to encourage her and support her, but I feel like if I do it seems like I'm telling her she's fat. Is there a better way to encourage and support her weightloss without making it sound like I think she needs it?

[Moonrisekitten]

Good question. Kiss her and ask if she's lost wait. Say whatever it is she's doing she looks good. I know I've gained wait over the holidays. I love it when people act like they haven't noticed but it doesn't help me. My boyfriend has never said I need to lose wait. But he says he would still love me if I did. I know what that means. That's all I need to hear. But since she's trying real hard to loose wait, just keep up the positive reinforcment. And if she has cake, Don't say anything! Don't say it's OK or help her justify it. You don't want to encourage that right now. Literally say as little as possible when it comes to her doing the opposite of loosing wait

[DaniJ]

Do you feel like you could stand to lose a few pounds? If so, tell her that her goal to lose weight inspired you to do the same, and you can do it together. Once you're in there with her, it's more appropriate to compliment her whenever the topic comes up, or encourage her.

[Randomguy4558]

Just be there with her. My ex was doing something similar, so I just went on the diet with her and exercise. Every time she would get down and about to quit, I would be there to give a little nudge in her continuing. Its all about how you word it though. You just have to be there in the process with her basically.

[palek]

Just try dropping some subtle hints. Refer to her occasionally as "lard butt", or "twinkie breath", or ask her if when she takes a dump does she fill the toilet to the top.

[Lamoura]

You start buying healthy foods and eat them with her...you can also exercise along with her...encourage her to move with you..make it fun!

If you want some fun exercise ideas and healthy yummy recips check out this site it offers free tips and recipes... no-excuse-fitness.org

[Anonymous]

Trying to eat healthier and joining her in exercising are great tips. Could certainly be something fun you do together.

If you want to compliment her you can say you've always been attracted to her and you support her efforts, and love her regardless, and you're happy she's happy with herself.

[Anonymous]

You're girlfriend is a sexy curvy woman, you should remind her that everyday. Tell her that if I thought she was fat and unattractive I wouldn't of fallen in love with you. Now I understand that you want to encourage her to loose weight, so say something like: "wow babe you're really toning up!" or something less obvious. :P

[Tinyplaces]

Join her when she exercises. Help prepare healthy meals and eat together.

[Anonymous]

Play the tuba when she walks.

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=d0aIqx1McVI