I am not fat nor skinny but my fiancee told me that I have this body type that gains weight fast

[mscomplicated]

i am not fat nor skinny but my fiancee told me that I have this body type that gain weight fast and that is his fear I really don't know what to say about what he called fear I mean it doesn't matter since I have a good personality..

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yes weight shouldn't matter what important is how your heart beats for her or him , and I was thinking maybe it just one of his stupid pranks like what he did to me before , we both loved each other he has a good personality that is why I say yes to him..i appreciate your comments guys and girl love you all.

[Darkfairie17]

He sounds immature, if he loves you and is ready to get married then he won't worry about something like that. Any person who has that as their top worry isn't ready for marriage. People change, people get older, people have problems, etc... That is all to be expected during a marriage.

If he truly loves you, your weight shouldn't matter. You need to sit him down and have a talk. To me it sounds like he's not ready for marriage.

[mscomplicated]

we talked and I ask him that he said yes and excited.

[Darkfairie17]

I would definitely talk to him about how his comments make you feel. That's something that has to change, especially if you two are going to get married. He needs to learn to have respect for his future wife. Life isn't easy and our bodies get scarred and damaged, but those imperfections are just proof that we have overcome obstacles :)

[Pedantic]

You used the word "fiance." While on the surface your question appears to be about weight, judging before you've done anything wrong, etc... all that is the tip of the iceberg.

He's having a fear festival. Every story he ever heard about a marriage souring or getting "stuck" with someone who turned into X, Y, or Z - is probably going through his head right now. He probably isn't ready to marry if he is that insecure about it.

[mscomplicated]

i don't know cause I ask him are you ready to marry me ? he said yes and he is very excited for that.

[Pedantic]

Some men have their pride. He may not want to appear foolish by getting weak knees in front of you now.

[Cryostatic]

Wait.

So, your fiance'e basically just told you that he's afraid you're going to get fat.

Classy guy.

[kheserthorpe]

Is your mother fat?

[ketfoen]

i know were this is going. Wanna know how your wife is gonna look in the future have a look at her mother. Guess I'm safe for 75%.

[mscomplicated]

when she was young , she is very sexy but right now she is not that fat as in 250 pounds.

[kheserthorpe]

Weight does matter. Don't imagine it shouldn't. It's important to find each other attractive.