What would make me look better for guys:(?

[Anonymous]

Hi:( I'm 16 and I have never had a boyfriend or even been kissed. I know it's really pathetic but I don't wanna feel like I'm not good enough guys anymore. I know I may sound desperate in your eyes but I don't know I just wanna have that experience as a teen. Can you please help me? I know my height can be a factor since I'm 6'0. I don't know what do I need to do. Should I lose some weight or something:( wear something different or change makeup all tips will be nice

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[bwrd830]

There's probably nothing realistically wrong with you, I've seen girls totally change the wrong way just to impress guys. Trust me having a first kiss or having sex is not all its played up to be. If your so deperate for a kiss you can go get one but its nothing like the one you share with someone who you really like. Don't feel left out your not. Nothing about you will change, most of the time it's just a bad experience. Save up all that emotion for someone you really like and if you wanna impress guys, work with what you got and don't try so hard.

[Asker]

:( I know I shouldn't be trying so hard to impress guys but its hard not to when you see all your friends or other girls getting attention from guys and your just there:'(

[bwrd830]

Ya I used to feel the same way, but don't give in too easily just because you see everyone else doing things with others. Your time will come. The worst thing you can do is rush it, which is what I gaurentee most of your friends are most likely doing.

[Asker]

none of them are like that way if that's what you meant. They have had boyfriends and talk with guys. I'm so freakin shy I cant:(

[bwrd830]

Look you need to stop worrying. I'm 18 and haven't been kissed, had a girlfriend, or any of that stuff. I'm pretty shy myself but there have been many girls who I have turned down and I used to think it was because I was inexperienced and what not but its because I just didn't like them like I thought I did. The more you try for something the harder it gets. Eventually you'll find someone that will make your words flow naturally and someone you can feel comfortable with. You'll feel like a

[bwrd830]

supernatural connection with them. I've questioned myself for years but it really just takes patience. Your totally capable of being with a guy that you have no idea. You look very pretty and you seem like a good girl but you question yourself too much, you gotta stop worrying and start living. Meet some friends, have a good time and you'll find your match.

[Asker]

i know your right:( I really do try to think the way you do I really do it just doesn't seem to last for long. I'm sorry if I'm annoyying you by the way. I'm trying to sound like a desparate girl either.

[bwrd830]

No it's fine. Just try to take my advice and cheer up, there is a lot to be thankful for in life and your still very young and your emotions are confused so you constantly have this urge to be with guys but I'm not telling you to keep yourself distant from guys but to make the best decision on who you want to be with. Don't let your "desperate" feelings make your first boyfriend the first guy to give attention to you. There's no height or makeup in the world to make you the type people want.

[Asker]

thanks a lot for the advice. im...gonna try to change the way I think. It won't be easy but I have too or I might "do something" I regret thanks for commenting

[bwrd830]

Ya no problem.

[Racez]

Your height is already attractive. You just need to spend more time with guys.

Perhaps, the fact that you're always with your friends, and not able to have some conversation with guys is a sign that guys couldn't approach you.

[Asker]

i wouldn't even really consider my "friends" friends tht much:(

[YouthfulPallor]

16 is really young. Believe it or not, their are a lot of 16 year old lip virgins. Don't try to change yourself to get guys... it's stupid. You're a beautiful girl and if you go out of your way to meet guys, you'll definitely find one who's interested in you. Just be patient.

[Anonymous]

I don't see any pics, when I click on the link so idk, yeah ide be intimidated dating a girl 6'0 because I'm only 5'10 so that is a huge factor with me at least. That is probably why in all honesty but there are also taller men like 6'0 plus so I don't know why they wouldent make a move.

maybe your really pretty idk.

[Asker]

I doubt the pretty thing:(

[Opinion Owner]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We tend to be hardest on ourselves than other people. What do I type in on flicker ill give you my honest opinion on your looks if youde lie, there is beaty in everyone.

Ive never saw a girl where I dident find one thing beatiful in her. You also have to examine yourself, find your good qualities, if you have awsome eyes bring them out. You could be a diamond in the ruff most people are not naturally good looking.

[Opinion Owner]

*like

[Asker]

I can try putting the link again or are you just gonna search my username?

[Asker]

And saying I'm a diamond in the ruff would be too high of a compliment for how I see myself

[Opinion Owner]

I don't use flicker s I'm not even sure how to, when I click your link, it only takes me to flicker and tells me to search something :/

[Asker]

Like a user name?

[Opinion Owner]

I know for myself, when my hair is all messy and uncut, I don't look nearly as good as I do when its cut. It just frames my face so much better and brings out my eyes and jaw and other features. You have to find a haircut that fits you.

[Opinion Owner]

Like a username? when I click your link it says. Search for photos. and a text and tag button on the buttom. I never use flicker so I don't know how it works.

[Asker]

i guess:(

[Opinion Owner]

you guess what? how can everyone else see the pictures in the link? all it does for me is tell me to type something in?

[Asker]

thats weird I'm sorry I don't have that picture anywhere else:(

[Asker]

hehehe no I was saying that to when you were talking about a haircut

[Opinion Owner]

What do I have to type in?

[Asker]

im not sure if this works but calibabe23 is my user name(dont laugh)

[Opinion Owner]

UGH no it dident work, god technology is nice when it freaking works. Just honeslty work on your personality, ill date anyone with a good personality that I'm physically attracted to at all. What gets me good is when a woman is sweet, kind, and all around a good person.

[Asker]

hahaha sorry again:) and I try to be really nice to people although I am kinda shy. But I don't know I guess time just isn't on my side:( Thx anyway for answering:)

[Anonymous]

I'm 16 and have never kissed anyone, you're not pathetic (or at least not alone). As others have said, just spend more time with guys by just walking up to theem and talking to them if you have mutual friends or things in common. Your height is not an issue =)

[DeepBlue]

The pic in the link makes you seem confident. You're smiling and don't look like you need to lose weight at all. My guess is it has to do with something other than your physical appearance.

[Asker]

Trust me I'm not:(

[DeepBlue]

Well there's no reason for you not to be as far as I can tell.

[rocksongwriter]

Height is only a factor if you make it one. Tall gals are dreamy.