Why is his action opposite of what he says?

[evette]

Friend said he did not like how I look losing weight. Well I did almost lost 20 pounds. He commented that I lost to much weight. Yet he continue to tell me how nice I look in my dresses and still comments me on my butt, want me to be around him all the time and stars at me when I am not looking. And he flirts with me but I ignore him.

[journeyman1126]

Insecurity.

You're more attractive now and that can be threatening.

I actually fattened up a catty girlfriend once because she kept telling me about all the guys flirting with her.

All's fair in love and war. And I'm a damned good cook.

Let that be a warning to ya. hehe.

[Anonymous]

It's because he doesn't want you to notice that he really likes you a lot, physically.

Though, it's really clear that he's into you.

[backagainagain]

He prefers you heavier but still likes you despite losing the weight.