Do guys notice when we have weight on our shoulders?

[Anonymous]

A few years ago before I went through 3 traumatic breakups and relationships a lot of guys approached me but now hardly any do. Do they notice or sense we have a lot of weight and place us as unapproachable?

[tadpole25]

depends on your mindset. unfortunately, many women who have gone through painful breakups develop a cynical attitude that all men are heartbreakers unless they prove themselves otherwise.

no quality man would want to jump through hoops to please a stranger that doesn't like him.

[Theguyoverthere]

If a girl is going through what you described and we saw from a distance you'd most likely look really defensive and avoidant which would make guys think you wanted to be left alone.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's the way you're carrying yourself now. You've changed from these experiences. You're not the same girl as before