I don't know what to do anymore :-(

[Anonymous]

Im driving myself crazy. I just can't seem to get over my ex iv been crying myself to sleep for a few nights now. here's my problem. He ebded with me because he wasn't happy a week later he said he actually ended because people led him ro believe he's better off single. Either way I cut the contact. 2 weeks later I heard ge was with someone else. A girl he used to call a slapper? This girl used to be sleeping with his enemy amd this same girl dislikes me for no reason. I gave no reaction to this just wished him well. Everyday I hope il hearfrom him but at the same time I just want to move on and get over it. Its easy to say keep busy times a healer distract yourself have no contact. that's all been done and I'm still so so so hurt. I'm annoyed because he was terrible for me. Txting other girls all the time. Roumers of cheating. Talked about other girls all the time. Always told me how other girls were always coming onto him and telling him he's gorgous. All this while we were together so what's wrong with me :-(

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Just to add we are broken up over a month

[QueenBeatris]

my daughter is still going through this with his first,over 8 years,when is it going to be enough already,he is a douche ,yes it stings but they deserve each other I told you this last time..u will cry and cry and cry some more.,like I did,it took me a few months but I realized I wasn't crying for him..it was for myself because I'm a good woman and did not deserve that type of treatment,so go ahead mourn the loss but eventually you will cry less and less and you will see while it feels like you are falling apart you are really piecing yourself back together to the person you were before him...and in time you will see clearly why it was best to let that sh*t go.You are so much better than that.

[Asker]

Thanks xx

[notplayin]

Join the club I am having a hard time getting over my ex who is a total dirt bag. I think it is just dealing with the disappointment and missing them its hard to let go. I am dating staying busy and trying to remember if it were meant to be it would be keeping faith that everything will work out is how I get through it stay positive keep positive thoughts it will get better with time.

[Anonymous]

Well, it's quite clear that you need a guy who's more faithful to you and stop thinking about your ex.

[Asker]

Thanks :)

[Jesse79]

Its always the players who cheat and lie that hurt the most. Some girls are smart and avoid these guys at all costs. I am with one, pretty sure he's cheating and has been for at least a year now, but for fear of being like you are now I'm still with him. If you find the answer please let me know. I think you need to go get yourself some beauty stuff done and get a smashing outfit and go out. Go away to a friends for a weekend and meet some new people, and do your best not to bring it up.

[Asker]

Honestly the break up is killing me but your situation is different ya see I wouldn't take him back nobodydeserves that treatment I want to feel better but iv more pride and respect for myself to ever be with him again. You poor thing, its a hard thing to break but if I were you id run for the hills suffer away I am myself but I know I deserve a hell of a lot better and so do you. Run girl.