Why are people so weight crazed?

[CrazynKinky]

If you want to get in shape and be skinny good for you but why is it that everyone has an opinion on weight. Fat girls are gross or skinny girls are either way your insulting someone for how they chose to be. I'm not saying I'm innocent I've made jokes. But I see a lot of question on here about weight and people just full blown attacking people whether it's against fat or skinny. People making comments that your not pretty unless your a size two. I am not skin and bone I never have been never will be I'm tall with an athletic frame unless I didn't eat and had some bones removed I'd never be a size two. I'm perfectly comfortable with who I am I have my I hate myself I'm so fat day and my I feel skinny days but even size twos feel fat sometimes. So why does it bother people so much that other people that aren't part of their life look a certain way. Why's it matter to you if Samatha's probably going to die of a heart attack cause her legs can't even hold her body up or that Becky's to skinny and can be split like a twig. If your not part of their life why does it matter to you how they choose to live?

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I know people are attracted to people that look a certain way my question is why do you judge the people that your not attracted to and make a big deal out of the way they look when they don't affect you in any way.

[Stacyzee]

Why?

Because we live in a world where there are constant images

displayed of what we are expected to look like.

The images are displayed in magazines, television etc.

Half of the images that we see are false (because of the enhancements, make up, or photoshop

done to those people)

This is a very superficial world.

If you're too overweight...you're told you have to lose it.

if your hair starts to gray...you are told you have to dye it.

If your skin wrinkles..you're told you need botox.

This is a world where being young or youthful is constantly praised ,

and looking "healthy" is as well.

You cannot blame people...blame society.

People are born as blank slates.

We only become a molding of our environment.

[Stacyzee]

Amazing how people down rate

[Deft_maiden]

Some has to do with what one finds visually arousing and the rest with social conditioning. You know, associating a thinner body with better health, etc.

[steveisbored]

Well I am sure there are some people that just like with most insults are just projecting their own fears onto the person/situation where they insult someone for being fat, they are actually worried about their own size and their self-esteem. There is a large amount of people that just dislike people that are either too skinny or too fat (in their eyes) and think they are inferior and think "why should I have to look at them!" and are just angry people.

[ironeddie]

Usually they are missing something in their life. So it's easier to critique others. To make themselves feel better.

God forbid they try and fix what's wrong.

:-)

[twistedamber]

I was obsessed with weight so my boyfriend wouldn't fall out of love with me. When guys constantly look up images/videos of thin girls that have perfect bodies, there's competition. There starts to be self hatred. why can't I look that way? Then paranoia, if he likes that so much, he's going to leave for someone who looks like her. It's a never ending cycle.

[CrazynKinky]

I'm a firm believer if he's worth keeping he'll accept me no matter what weight I gain or lose if he can't accept that he's not worth it

[abundantlyrich]

Cos they weren't skinny before or they get sensitive when they hear too many fat remarks / jokes going around.

[sean1234]

I'm not weight crazed, but I want to be healthy and like women to be healthy because I'm attracted to healthy looking women.

[sean1234]

YOu can go from this to this ---> link ,but I won't be attracted to you anymore what so ever.

[CrazynKinky]

It's rare for people to go from stick to that fat

[sean1234]

Maybe not to that extent, but still, fat is not beautiful and neither skinny/anorixia for that matter. I like a woman that takes care of their body, that is over weight or even under weight and does something about it.

[Neurath]

Prefer my women to be hourglass.

[sean1234]

ha ha link